What Pisses Me Off

To be honest, I had fun in Texas visiting Dolly and meeting the people she knows out ther until last night.  Last night, she comes into the room me and Pam are in and basucally accuses us of only hanging out with one another, constantly ditching her, and making her feel completely left out and abandoned when "she wanted to spend this time with us."

There’s more to the whole thing, and I’ll go into it in later entries, but honestly, the more I think about it, the more I believe that her whole rant at us was done simply because she ewas pissed off at other people, but we were convenient targets because she didn’t want to tell the other people off for whatever reason.  It seriously pisses me off, because she said she’d felt like this for days, and yet she doesn’t mention anything until last night, when it”s too late for either of us to do anything to make it up to her, if in fact, there was anything for us to make up to her.  And she claimed that she didn’t say anything because she didn’t want to ruin things or something like that, and because "she’s not good with confrontation."  Plus, that when I said she should have said something earlier so that we could make it up to her, she flat out said she didn’t beleive I would, because I was "always doing stuff like this."

A) Well, thanks SO MUCH for acknowledging that I’ve changed in the past eight years!  For crying out loud, we haven’t seen one another since 2001 before this week, and we sure as Hell didn’t know one another then!

B) All right, fine.  She doesn’t want to acknowledge that I’ve changed, that covers one of us.  What about Pam?  What, just because she and I are talking as actual friends instead of friends through a friend, she’s put into the same category that Dolly considers me in? ie- the whole, "Oh, even if you did know about this, you wouldn’t have done anything to fix it, cuz you’re always doing this stuff."

It pisses me off that she condemned Pam like that, too.  And what makes me think that she’s just projecting her anger at others onto us is that after things settled down, she talked about how on her wedding day, this girl named Kelli had her hair done, (fifty freakin’ dollars to have her hair curled.  I mean, c’mon!  Put some curlers in, use some hair spray and there you go, it’s free.)  Well, I guess when Kelli went to pay, it turned out there wasn’t enough money on the card, and she got all pissed at her husband, this guy named James, because of that.  (It’s his card.)  And she was getting all pissed at James for not telling her how small of a max they had on that card, etc., etc., and instead of telling her off and saying how irresponsible it is of them to constantly max out their cards, she comforts Kelli.  Then, later, even though she knows, and says that James always gets the sh*t end of the stick because of Kelli, Dolly tells him to tell her how gorgeous she looks and everything so things’ll stay peaceful.

Then the next day, I guess this one girl was flipping out about things with her husband and son, and again, instead of saying something to her, or just telling her to go the f*ck away, Dolly says nothing.  And that night, she comes and claims that me and Pam have been so terrible, and then she goes on this tangent about how horrible I’ve treated Rob while we were there.

It’s BS.  It truly is.  And I’m telling her this, too.  And I will personally site all the times that Pam or I or botrh of us hung out with her.  Or when she or I or both of us t5ried to include ourselves into conversations or whatever that Dolly was having with the ones she knows down there, who, might I add, Pam and I have only met in person that week.

The whole thing pisses me off, and I know it’s shown today.  But honestly, I’m glad I’m home.  I got so Goddamn sick of Dolly telling me I had to marry Rob.  She doesn’t live with him.  She doesn’t know how much of a child he actually is.  I refuse to stay with someone who doesn’t have any single shred of common sense!  For instance, today, Pam and I were at the airport at Subway, getting some food for the three of us.  She went back to get some change from her bag and she comes back, saying that the flight is boarding, we had to go.  Now, Rob was at the gate, with our stuff.  Both of us had cell phones.  Him and Pam, I mean.  Does he think to call Pam’s phone?  Nooooooo….  He thinks he doesn’t have Pam’s number!  So instead of turning his phone on to even check, he just stands there like a moron!  I seriously wonder what he would have done if we hadn’t gotten back there.  I mean, seriously, how stupid can a person be?  He should have checked his phone.  He should have had us paged.  Anything but just standing there doing nothing.  Yet that’s all he did.  Stood there, doing nothing.

Then earlier, I swear, the only reason I held my tongue is because Pam is here until tomorrow.  Rob said something about, "don’t talk to me like I’m an idiot."  My mental, (and almost verbal,) response?  "As soon as you stop acting like one, I’ll be glad to."

I have no patience for stupidity, I have no patience for someone not being honest, and I sure as Hell have no patience for anger being projected onto me and somene else when other people are the ones who should be told off.