Ex Survey

1. WHAT IS THE NAME OF YOUR EX? Mike.

1. WHEN DID YOU MEET? May 9th of ’98

2. HOW OLD WERE YOU THEN? HOW OLD WAS HE/SHE? We were both fifteen.

3. WHEN DID YOU START GOING OUT? Feb 21st, 2000.

4. WHAT DID YOU NOTICE FIRST ABOUT THEM? Back in May? That he was the only one with higher brain power at that party, so unless I wanted to lose brain cells, I should stick by him.  That, and back then, he looked like a blond George Harrison.

5. DO YOU REMEMBER WHAT YOU TALKED ABOUT THE FIRST TIME YOU MET? Not really, though pretty quickly, I mentioned the George Harrison thing.

6. WHEN DID YOU BREAK UP? Which time?  I broke up with him sometime in March of I believe 2003.  But we thoroughly split in December of ’05.

7. WHO BROKE UP WITH WHO? It was my decision the first time. The second, I guess I initiated it, but he was more willing to get rid of me.

8. WHY DID YOU BREAK UP? That’s a whole huge story that’s much too long for a survey.

9. HOW SERIOUS WAS THE RELATIONSHIP? I’d say very . . . We’d intended to get married on May 9th of this year.

10. HOW LONG HAD YOU BEEN TOGETHER THE FIRST TIME YOU KISSED? I kissed him to lket him know how I felt.

11. …FRENCH KISSED? You know, I’m not sure.  I think it was only a couple of days.

12. …MADE OUT? The same night we got together.

13. …HAD SEX? Never.

14. DID YOU LOVE HIM/HER? At the beginning . . . 

15. DID HE/SHE LOVE YOU? I think . . .

16. DO YOU STILL FEEL THIS WAY ABOUT THEM? Not that way, not like I did at the start, but . . . I don’t know.  There are so many tangled up emotions where he’s concerned.

17. DID YOU TRUST THEM? I did.

18. DID YOU EVER CHEAT ON THEM? Never.

19. DID THEY EVER CHEAT ON YOU? Nope.

20. WHAT WAS THE BEST PART OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP?  The way he made me feel at the beginning.

20B. WHAT WAS THE WORST? The stuff with his mom and brother that caused all the arguments, among other things.

21. WERE YOU GOOD TO EACH OTHER? Sometimes.

22. WHAT WAS YOUR FAVOURITE PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTE OF THEIRS? His eyes and his hands.

23. HOW ABOUT NON-PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES? At the start his sense of humor, and throughout, his mind.

24. DID THEY SMOKE, DO DRUGS, DRINK? HOW DID YOU FEEL ABOUT IT? Throughout when I knew him, he couldn’t stand drinking, drugs, or cigarettes.  Still can’t stand the second two that I know of, but his aversion to alcohol has disappeared, despite his insistance of disgust for it before.

25. DO YOU REGRET ANYTHING ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP? Yes . . .

26. IF SO, WHAT? Again, too much to put here.

27. GIVEN THE CHOICE, WOULD YOU DO IT ALL AGAIN? I’ve been debating this question lately.  I still haven’t arrived at an answer.

28. A GOOD MEMORY: My prom.  His prom.  His reaction with what I pulled off for his twentieth birthday.

29. AND A BAD ONE: Heh . . .

30. DO YOU HATE YOUR EX NOW? No.

31. WOULD YOU TAKE THEM BACK? I don’t know.

32. HOW IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP NOW? (STILL FRIENDS? NOT TALKING? HATING EACH OTHER?) I don’t know.

33. ARE YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW? Yeah.