Facebook Depresses Me
So…I’ve decided that I suck at life, and all because I was stupid enough to look up some of my old friends from middle school on facebook. Hmm and let’s see…all of them are engaged and they just look so damn cute. It makes me want to throw up. Hello? They are what 22 and engaged?? Ok ok ok I know that it can work ect ect ect…but it just makes me feel so fricken old. I’m going to be 23 in March…no engagement in site…which is cool. I’m happy with myself it’s just…I don’t know. I think I always saw myself getting married at 20 and then having my first child at age 25. Which can’t happen.
Why is it that we set standards for ourselves that are just plain impossible?
Your early to mid 20s should be the chance to take advantage of your youth and enjoy various experiences and such before settling down. I think that’s too young. Plenty of time to get engaged/married. Your 20s (especially if you’re still in college) only come around once. Enjoy it while you can because when you’re older, you wish you could go back. 🙂
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Considering both of my sisters (younger than me) are married and have kids well don’t feel bad. I don’t see a relationship let alone engaged anywhere in my foreseeable future.
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Almost all my friends were married two years out of high school and it really depressed me then, too, but seriously? Who wants to be married that young??
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HA! your freakin tellin me. Its good your cool with not being engaged, or single, or whatever the status is. Thats awsome, and I envy you that. Its gonna take me some getting used, but I’m done with the whole relationship thing. its so not worth the agrivation. So, good for you! and screw those other people, its just their own insecurities that make them have to hurry up and get things done now!
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LOL… oh I have to say I did the exact same thing. I have A myspace and found some old friends and almost all of them are married or going to be married or something to that effect. I am happy where I am at in life at the moment but I know what you mean about the standards we set for ourselves that we never get to. I am dealing with exactly the same thing you are when I look at all the profiles.
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