why don’t people shut up at the movies?

Luke and I went to the movies last night.  We went and saw ‘The Ring 2″.  It was pretty good I thought for a sequel.  We only watched half of it though, because the guys sitting next to Luke apparently wouldn’t shut up.  He got to the point of a boiling frustration and stood up and walked out – me of course following him.  I wasn’t going to stay there and watch the movie while he was upset.  I suggested us just moving to the front of the cinema but he wanted no part in it cos he was so angry.  He was so close to punching the guy out.  Luke can get so angry sometimes.  As he was stomping out, I was trying to talk to him but it was like talking to a brick wall.  I went to grab his hand and he shaked it away.  That hurt me a bit I’ll admit and I thought ‘if you ever get violent with me you’d better look out’ but I didn’t say that.  I don’t think he ever would, I just know his anger can be unreal sometimes.  I’ve seen a few sides of it, especially playing tennis, but the movies last night was unreal.  So yeah i pretty much wasted $22 and saw half a movie, but hey.  Luke said I could go back in and watch the rest of the movie and he’d just wait, but he had to be kidding me, as IF I’d do that.  So we drove him in silence, me trying to crack a joke here and there trying to get him to talk, and saying i’d take him to work the next day, which got a faint ‘thanks’ mumble out of his mouth.  We got home, he stomped around a bit more, got his stuff, slammed the door closed and went outside to go have a shower.  I went to bed in the meantime, I didn’t wanna put up his moodiness, and figured maybe a hot shower would calm the guy down a bit.  It seemed to, cos he came back, and walked in the bedroom naked (i wasnt complaining!) and laid on top of me, kissing me and apologised for ‘ruining my night’.  He didn’t ruin my night, I’m trying to think of it positively, as in the movie was getting pretty scary, and I’m glad we walked out before I got too scared.  Cos i went into the movies with these huge expectations that the movie was gunna scare the shit outta me, and it was scary, but not as much as i had predicted, so I felt okay.  The movie went for over 2 hours anyway, from looking at the timetable, and Luke had to start at 7:30am today.  He’s working til Midnight!!  What a shift!!  I’m glad he got his sleep though, he so needed it.  I did too I guess.

Luke asked me last night if everything was okay.  And I admitted that nothing was wrong, but…. and I told him I had met up with Mick for coffee, and I felt really bad about it.  Cos I did, cos I know how much he dislikes the guy.  Luke explained that he doesn’t hate Mick, and the only thing that he has against Mick, is that he doesnt respect our relationship – it’s like he walks all over it, and he said I can be friends with Mick, it doesn’t bother him, what bothers him is the minute he disrespects our relationship is when he dislikes him.  Mick’s just gotta understand that, and we will be friends so long as that happens.  I’m so glad that’s all sorted out.  Luke’s my lover, Mick’s my friend, and I feel bad Mick feels bad, but that’s life hey.  things don’/t always go right for me either.

Well thats the last 12 hours or so.  I wonder what’s happening at AGMF.  So wish i could be there, and i could, but nah, i should go shopping as they are only open today.  Love you all!