Men are confusing

So I may have sort of starting talking to my ex again in the hope that we could be friends. Things were fine to start off with until he decided to kiss me one day when we hung out. I don’t really understand where it came from. Since then I’ve still been having out with him and it’s almost like we are a couple again. He talks to me over messages and wants to meet every now and again but I really don’t know what it means anymore. I know he doesn’t want a relationship but he still acts like he is in love with me. It makes me feel like he wants me to want him but he doesn’t want me like that. It’s all rather confusing I guess it’s harmless because it’s not like I’m into anyone else and I’m not allowing myself to fall too hard because I know I’ll prob get hurt. I want him to want me that way but I don’t think he will. Maybe he just wants the company and is waiting for something better to come along? It’s all a bit odd I guess and I don’t really know what to think. Maybe I should just steer clear completly but what if this is a chance for things to get to the next level?

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July 31, 2018

I would steer clear. Either that, or have your ex be up front and honest to you about what he wants.

Your heart is fragile and broken hearts suck. There are men and women in the world who will lure you back in and break your heart.

August 7, 2018

If anything, from my experience, don’t be the one who becomes the doormat. If he likes chasing you, make sure you let him get you and then he will show his true colours. Either he will maintain his interest in you and you guys can take things further, or after he has finished his chase, he may lose interest. Guys are like that. They either want to chase and actually keep what they were after, or they just love the chase. Luckily, you can find out whether he loves the chase or actually wants you by giving in a little and letting him have you. If you’re not comfortable, take a step back. But, personally, don’t ignore him or lead him on. It makes things way weirder 🙈