02/11/2013

I feel like the world biggest asshole for missing my therapy appointment this morning. Especially less than 24 hours someone stood me up for an appointment that I had taken to meet them on my day off. I hate putting people out. It’s just really not my way. Ugh. Annnnyways…

My therapist actually "graduated" John and I from couple’s therapy a few weeks ago. She said we’re in an amazing place and have all the right tools to deal with whatever comes up. She’s not wrong, we are in an amazing place. It’s kind of gross that we’ve actually turned in to the perfect couple we’ve always pretended to be. I never would have seen that coming. 

We owe money on our taxes this year. Over $1000. I can’t tell you how mad I was when I worked that out earlier this week. We’ve always just broken even, or owed a little money that we expected to owe. Now we’re either going to have to take a huge chunk out of savings or add to our credit card debt. Or we can wait until my bonus money comes next month, and use is ALL on stupid taxes. Ugh. 

That’s all I’ve got for you – just a random, Monday morning bitch session because I feel guilty about missing therapy. I guess I better get off my ass and do something with the rest of my day. Enjoy yours.

 

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February 11, 2013

Thanks for stopping by, always nice to hear from you. You know, hmm, I like to try and be different. I like to try and be respectful, honest, and considerate of everyone’s feelings who’s considerate of mine. I know harm isn’t really meant by such comments but I take offence. A few months ago one guy who I have to deal with was talking to my boss next to me and used the phrase ‘darkies.’ I couldn’t believe what I was hearing! You’re depressingly right about how tough it is to progress if you act a way against ‘the norm.’ But I’m committed (or just crazy?) I’ve moved up from 1st line support to Assistant Manager of this team of 40. I’m determined to stick to being the way I am rather than the way people think I should be. Now I’ll stop being so self-centred and talk about you. I’m glad things are on an upward spiral for you relationship wise. You sound like you’ve moved over a giant hill and can finally see sunshine on the other side. As for the money issues. Well that’s just life (which I know sounds harsh) but you speak with a new found strength here so I’ve every faith that you’ll deal with this and move on into a happier, stress-free, vibe. <b

February 22, 2013

Miss Kate, I hope this weekend finds you great?