Annoyed & Hurt
Hurricane of emotions
I am annoyed with my husband because of his low libido. It’s always been that way. So we rarely have sex then he jerks off in the shower…I mean seriously WTF! I have noticed the days we do have sex are the days his buddies send him text with naked chicks…so I have to wait until his boys get him in the mood. Am I over reacting
not overreacting at all. Not one bit.
@scarlettlee he says it’s not me but it’s really hard not to think that. In the past year he has literally crushed my self esteem and I am feeling the lowest I’ve ever been. I don’t even know where to begin to get it back.
@jupiterjune I went through the same exact thing. So I started loving on myself. I lost weight and changed my appearance- not for him, but for ME. Then I left him. I am not suggesting you get a divorce in the least, but I figured out that I deserved to be worshipped and adored. Best decision ever. Ex-hubby was not great in bed, anyway.
@scarlettlee I’ve been thinking I do need to make changes for me. I know I can’t eliminate everything that sets me off but I do need to adjust my reactions.
sucky in bed anyway lol classic
@jupiterjune and this may be out of line or obscene, but I could suggest some aids that would rock your world, lol.
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You are not overreacting. This can hurt a women’s self esteem, and make her feel less than a women. How do I know? Because something similar has happened to me. Instead of waiting on him, take care of your self. I also recommend sitting down and having a serious conversation with him because he is your husband and its worth trying to figure out what needs to be worked on.
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Nope, I know the feelings you’re having right now all too well and it really sucks. I’m not in a place to give any helpful advice but knowing you’re not alone in your struggles may help. 😕
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