Little green eyes
I think we may have a small problem with Ella, it seems she’s jealous of Cindi and my affection towards each other. The latest example came on Monday when I came home with flowers and a card for our anniversary. Well Ella had a meltdown with that and was sure that no one loved her and for longest time could not be consoled. Finally she went crying up to her room and I had to go up and talk to her and give some major reassurance.
I put this together with something my co-worker Patty told me about when Cindi and Ella stopped by while shopping on Sunday to see me. I was busy working with some customers looking at rugs and Ella kept trying to come over to me. Well at one point she turns to Cindi and says "mommy you stay I want daddy all to myself."
Plus the flower meltdown was not the first time she’s overreacted to little signs of affection between Cindi and I. Now I’m not sure what the solution is but I do know that we can’t stop showing signs of affection since seeing parents like that must be important to the child.
Now for some mindless filler: I saw this and stole it since it seemed like fun. One note is that I didn’t write the list since I’m not sure I would have put all these things on the list.
The Bucket List. Place an X by all the things you’ve done and remove the X from the ones you have not.
Things you have done during your lifetime:
X Gone on a blind date
X Skipped school
Watched someone die
XBeen to Canada
XBeen to Mexico
XBeen to Florida
Been to Hawaii
xBeen on a plane
XBeen on a helicopter
X Been lost
XGone to Washington, DC
X Swam in the ocean
X Cried yourself to sleep
X Played cops and robbers
X Recently colored with crayons
Sang Karaoke
Paid for a meal with coins only
Been to the top of the St. Louis Arch
X Done something you told yourself you wouldn’t.
X Made prank phone calls
Been down Bourbon Street in New Orleans
X Laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose & elsewhere
X Caught a snowflake on your tongue
X Danced in the rain
X Written a letter to Santa Claus
X Been kissed under the mistletoe
X Watched the sunrise with someone
X Blown bubbles
X Gone ice-skating
X Gone to the movies
XBeen deep sea fishing
Driven across the United States
Been in a hot air balloon
Been sky diving
Gone snowmobiling
/Lived in more than one country (gave this half an X since I’m not fully sure being on a military base really counts as living in the country. But did spend a year stationed in Eygpt)
X Lay down outside at night and admired the stars while listening to the crickets
X Seen a falling star and made a wish
Enjoyed the beauty of Old Faithful Geyser
XSeen the Statue of Liberty
XGone to the top of Seattle Space Needle
Been on a cruise
X Traveled by train
Traveled by motorcycle
XBeen horse back riding
Ridden on a San Francisco cable car
Been to Disneyland or Disney World
XTruly believe in the power of prayer
XBeen in a rain forest
XSeen whales in the ocean
XBeen to Niagara Falls
Ridden on an elephant
Swam with dolphins
Been to the Olympics
Walked on the Great Wall of China
Saw and heard a glacier calf
Been spinnaker flying
XBeen water-skiing
XBeen snow-skiing
Been to Westminster Abbey
Been to the Louvre
XSwam in the Mediterranean
X Been to a Major League Baseball game
XBeen to a National Football League game
So that’s all for today, have a great day and make someone smile.
Maybe you could take her on some daddy-daughter dates? Bring flowers home for her sometime? Maybe she’s just needing some extra affection right now! 🙂
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