where is the love?

It’s been awhile since I’ve written, and I will write an exciting entry all about my lovely Spring Break 😛 But for the moment, I wanna repost something that one of my friends wrote… something that has actually kind of been on my mind lately, but she said it way better than I ever could have, so with her permission, I’m reposting it here. Thanks Millie:

It’s funny how with so many people being “independant” these days so many are happily(?) alone. I wonder what happened to those days where a guy saw a gal he was attracted to and set his sight on her regardless of her faults, shortcomings, education, culture, upbring, social status, religion or whatever else we focus way to much on these days. What happened to the ‘magic’ of knowing? or maybe the magic of not knowing and just taking a chance, where have those days of we’ll work it out baby no matter what happens gone to? The days where love actually meant for better or worse instead of what we’ve managed to replace it with in todays world which is for better only or I’m gone. Why is it so important that our ‘desired’ person fits our fricking mindless idiodic fantasy to a tee and if they don’t they are dismissed as quickly as a left over from a restuarant.

Has the whole world gone insane, where has love run off to hide in the throw away world we live in, what happend to romancing someone to where it meant I care for you, I want to be with you, I desire you to be with me instead of just being taken as I’d like to hump you! It is depressing, and I’ll tell you a secret even though like most of you, I’m most excellent at wearing the public mask of signle alone and happy for it. NOTHING would be better than to come home and have someone caring, loving thoughful there waiting or know they’d be coming home to. I can’t think of a better time to have than sharing dinner together, doing mundane things like whatever washing, dishes, cooking, household things with someone and then relaxing not to bang our brains out but to just lie back in each others arms of hold each other and watch a film or show or listen to music or any of the goofy crap that is taken so for granted because our world is rush rush rush. I hate (*secretly*) seeing other couples even if I know because of the Bullshit were fed being together and knowing their chances of making it are slim because of what we’ve built and done to oursleves as a society. I HATE throwing away something because it’s broke, or not like I want it, or because it’s outdated, so what!!! Where’s the value in that, where’s the sense of purpose?

in essence where’s the love?

This is probably one of my most passionate subjects, the thing that is the foundation of what I believe, my belief in the split apart legend, why I don’t cheat, why I’ll never accept a cheater, why my integrity, etc.. is so important and why it’s held in such high regard and so dear to me (*even when I could break these things or do stuff and never get caught, I’d know!*). I fear I could ramble on about this forever, I long and fear sometimes I’m born way to late, the time for true love has passed only to be replaced by some marketing MTV throw away temporary version of love and that’s not good enough. I want the one that transcends time and I’ve been waiting a hell of a long time for it, and yes as lonely as some of you feel right now also (*even with the mask*) but I’ll NEVER trade my loniless for something less than the real thing, I don’t want a band aid, or a patch till the next boo boo I want forever, until then I guess we are all kinda in the same boat. [.† Queen of Sin †.]

That’s all for the moment.

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