The Five Secrets You Must Discover Before You Die
I am back from my vacation visiting family in GA. I had a great time. The highlights of my trip were: Eating lunch with my mom and younger brother at Golden Corral, taking mom shopping and getting treats at the DQ, and spending time with my older brother. I really enjoyed cooking for Mom and having Mom and Daughter time.
I have been reading an interesting book. I wrote about it when I was in GA, but the entry did not save, so you were unable to read it. The book title is "The Five Secrets You Must Discover Before You Die". The secrets are basically things we know but never stop and think about them. The author interviewed 235 people between the ages of 60 and 105. His original sample was 15,000 people! He felt that people in this age range had lived long enough to share about their lives. If you want to know the Five Secrets, I will tell you in another entry. However, I thought it would be interesting to post an entry about each of the questions the author asked these people which resulted in his great book.
One of the quotes that I found profound was a quote from an elderly man: "I spent most of my life on things. People always came in a distant second in terms of my priorities. Now I realize that my BMW doesn’t come visit me in the nursing home."
This book is amazing. I would like to start a book discussion!
So here is the first question for you to ponder from The Five Secrets You Must Discover Before You Die.
Pretend that you are at a dinner party, and everyone is sitting in a circle. The host invites each person to take just a few minutes to describe the life he or she has lived. If you were at the party and you wanted people to know as much about your life as possible in those few minutes, what would you say? Describe the life you have lived thus far.
If I had to describe the life I have lived thus far, I guess I would say I’ve struggled with some very difficult life challenges over the years but I’ve also found moments of happiness. I would go on to say that I wish the moments of happiness had been greater than the difficult life challenges.
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If I had time to think it over I would like to say that my life has been blessed with loving parents, a wonderful husband, three great kids and four outstanding grandkids. What few bumps along the way have strengthed me and made the ties stronger. God is good.
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I would agree with aunty_em.. I would have said something very similar.
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Interesting Book
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I have led a relatively easy and hitch free life so far. You could nearly call it mundane! As the youngest of a big family I was always a bit ‘spoilt’ I guess but it never affected me adversely. I was put on a bit of a pedestal – still am to a degree. My life has always revolved around my family – parents, siblings and later husband and children. I have never experienced a broken heart.
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I agree with Auntie Em. I was blessed to have wonderful parents. I was spoiled. My first marriage had humps in the road. But not as bad as some people. But because of this marriage I have two great children and 5 grandchildren. I would not change anything if it had meant I didn’t not have the children I have. Basically I am average with an average life.
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