Can you make a person fall back in love with you?

I have been feeling this way for a while and its something he doesnt understand (of Course)

I have been acting shutdown lately i have just reached the end of my rope. And Bryan has been an Ass about it. First he got pissy cause i wouldnt have sex…guess what i dont feel like and am not gonna make myself feel like it just to please you!

So then today i was getting dressed and he tried to rub on me and i pulled away. So he threw a tantru for 5min and then sat down and asked what was wrong(which this was the first time he ahs ever asked me that i wasnt trying to sleep) So i told him that its complicated and he was like WHAT so i told him. "I just dont feel for you the same way i use to" And the first words out of his mouth were"IS there somebody else??"

Like seriously when do i have the time???

I asked him why everytime we have a convo like this thats the 1st thought. I tred to tell him this in november and he didn and doesnt listen.

The the usual questions came up. " Is it something i did? Is there something i can do to change your mind?" My question back was "HOW DO YOU MAKE A PERSON FALL BACK IN LOVE WITH YOU?"

Then we talked for a second and it was like i dont wanna move back in with my mom and he shouldnt have to leave so what now. And he was like "it isnt right that i sleep on the couch while you upstairs"

Dude you have been doin that for almost a year now! And he was like yeah but you have been actin like this for a while.

He has been sleepin on the couch since may I have been acting like this for 3 or 4 months top

So then he was like Im gonna figure out a way to change this!(whatever im tired of tryin i just can do it)

Then he made me mad cuz he started kissin my neck and i was like dude go get ready for work….So after he shaved he asked me to bring his clothes to him and when i went upstairs he tried rubbin on me and kissin me and I was like all your doin is makin me horny.

Does he seriously think that if i have sex with him that im just gonna magically feel things for him again????

Seriously I gotta figure something out cause i can see this getting worse soon

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January 23, 2010

Don’t know the whole story, but this guy sounds like he’s being a douche. If you don’t want to have sex, then he has to respect that and stop pressuring you. That issue alone would convince me to dump the a-hole. (Random noter- Hope you don’t mind my 2 cents.)