UM hello it wasnt just a miscarriage!

Im so tired of people thinking i had a miscarriage, NO, I actually had to go through the birthing process, just wasn’t able to bring home my baby girl, except in a tiny urn. I am seriously reconsidering how much of a best friend I have, i know things are really rough on our friendship, but some of the things she does kills me. Like her baby is what 3 weeks now and there is that 6 weeks thing were you really shouldnt take your new baby out or whatever, so when my mom was originally planning on having a party for my sister I assumed she wouldnt be at this party, but now my family decided to add my bFF and her other daughters birthdays to this party but didn’t tell me until i got the invite and then asked me to make the cakes. I asked my BFF  about it and she was like i thought you knew and they could totally celebrate her daughters another time cause she was on the fence about going cause her other daughter was still so young, and I told her that wasnt fair to her, but she then said she would like me to celebrate with my sister for her bday, so when i asked her if she decided for sure what she was going to do, she said she thinks they are gonna go…..so with that being said I am not attending my sisters party and I am having a hard time seeing where my BFF even thought about me, I think she was just telling me what she thought i wanted to hear. She even said that she would tell everyone the dr said it wasnt a good idea. BUT she must have changed her mind. My sister in law said she probably did it for attention or something. IDK i need to get to sleep or things are going to be rougher tomorrow 🙁