I am open until you lie to me…..

I am not a jealous person for the most part. I however can not stand being lied to. Yesterday I was so pissed cause i was supposed to work out at 6 last night, I couldn’t however, because my husband didnt come until that time. He txted me at 3 saying he was going to be a little bit late coming home from work, which ok that happens alot cause he is usually working over time, but then it ended up being 3 hours late. He txted me about 5 and was like i owe you, hmm ok whatever then he brought home two roses…UM stop hold on a min…..that doesnt happen unless he did something wrong…….I was just like where were you and he totally skipped over that to talk about something else.  whatever i was over it. Later, my son was playing on my husbands phone cause he will play the games, well my son did something to the phone and he asked me to help him get back to the games, and my husband then was kinda freaking out saying why are you going through my phone, I told him i wasnt just getting my son back to the game, no big deal…he was like want me to go through your phone? I told him sure i have nothing to hid….so later because i am bitch sometimes, i went through his phone, while he was right there and found a text message to his friend about "her" hanging out with them….but the messages before this were deleted, so i didnt know who was "her" no big deal at that point, so i asked him what he was planning on doing this weekend and who he was hanging out with….and he told me his friends and "seeth" (its "her" screen name) cause she was coming into town she lives in Minn.(let me just say his friends and him know her from some stupid computer game they all play i know about her already what she looks like and stuff like tht cause we have always been open about people we hang out with and talk about his friends are always teasing me because he has her number and talks to her or whatever its never been a big deal and I always told them if he wanted to leave me for her he is more than welcome to go thats his choice)….anyway I asked him why he didn’t tell me and now i knew why he was so gun ho on getting a babysitter for saturday night so i could go do something and he could go do something with her and his friend (yea i found out his other two friends werent going). I have no problem with that. i know he talks to her all the time online. Never thought anything of it, but now it makes me wonder since he has been acting so strange. Here is the other thing, we haven’t had sex in 3-4 weeks weird since things were going ok, and when you can get it take it lol……i even mean there hasnt been real kissing or anything. oh yea and on top of that this summer we are probably going to be moving 45 mins away to where his new job is, he almost tried backing out of it, even though this is what he has been wanting for awhile, he is suddenly confused etc….I told hiim i didnt get it, why the sudden change and he couldnt answer me….

heres the thing if he is cheating or even not even doing that just something else fine, i just dont want to be lied to….We have always been open about everything and we just had a talk about two weeks ago, about if we ever cheated or even followed within our boundries(from a previous entry) just to tell them no other questions asked…its not like he hasn’t sorta cheated before and that was in front of me…still with him then and now, so anyway point is DONT LIE TO ME..i can handle the truth always have…grr