Dear 2008

Dear 2008,

You know a lot of people are excited to see you gone… a lot of people unhappy, a lot of people struggling in this country and around the world. But quite honestly, I think you’re getting a bad rap. You were really good to me – I have no complaints – and I want to thank you. My life, here in 2009, is amazing – because of you.

Although we got married in 2007, 2008 was really the first year of our marriage. Chris and I have been incredibly happy together. It’s just easy. Everyone says marriage is hard, and maybe some years down the line I will understand what they’re talking about, but at this point I’m thoroughly convinced that’s it really not supposed to be hard. It’s easy… and wonderful. (You hear that Meg & Gretchen? It’s easy!)

In 2008 I had the absolute worst job thus far in my life. I was miserable – I didn’t like the work, I didn’t like the team, I didn’t like the manager. But then I landed the best job thus far in my life, where I love my team, and I relate so well to my manager, and I’m doing some pretty cool shit. And, let’s be honest, I’m being ridiculously well compensated for it. I know that’s not everything, but it certainly helps.

In 2008 we decided to take the plunge and build… not just buy, but BUILD… our first home. Six months after that decision, and we’re home owners. And I could not be more excited about our house! We managed to get our dream house the first time around. I love the kitchen (we even cook a little in it?), I love the morning room (the best place to read on a Saturday morning or just watch the rain), I love the living room (with the cozy fireplace, the bookshelves, the sectional, the 50″ plasma)… I feel like we live in a really nice tree house. I’ll post pictures at some point so you don’t think I’m totally nutso. (debatable)

In 2008 Meg and I really became friends again. Ok, the process started in 2007 – probably around the bridal shower – but it definitely solidified in 2008. (And I couldn’t be happier that she and Scott are together and happy!!) In 2008 we met new friends and started hanging out with new couples. On the sad side, Al left our group, never to be heard from again. On the neutral side, I cut connections with Drew (I did actually hand him that letter I wrote in person…). But I have amazing friends.

In 2008 we threw our first house party. And it was fucking awesome, if I do say so myself. (Thank you thank you Meg for your help!!)

So don’t feel so down, 2008. It wasn’t all bad – people will still remember you fondly.

Love,
Erin