Judging?

I am very confused about judging, and I’m generally Not a confused person.  "Family" was losing an argument with me, so she brought out of her hip pocket, "Don’t judge me, only God has that right.

Um.  No he’s not the only one with that right.  I invested too much time explaining to her that I judge people every day, we all do.  I used to live next door to a family whose favorite word to scream was every possible use of the word fuck. 

I judged them to be of lower intelligence then myself, seeing how they had such a limited vocubulary…and I also judged them to not be worthy company of my children.  I judged a man in a restaurant trying to buy my child a candy bar.  I had seen his picture on the sexual registry.  I judged him not worthy of indulging my child and insulted him to boot. 

I took the question to a church for some possible clarity.  They gave me permission to judge actions, but not judge their soul to hell.  That part is left up to God.  Unless you aren’t baptised…then they can judge your soul 🙁