What do you do…
….when he says that he doesn’t know if he’s in love with you, but he doesn’t want to lose you.
And then, a month later, you find out that he’s been talking to another girl for at least two weeks and planning to meet her….
Oh….and she’s from a dating site.
What do you do?
Dump him, like 10 minutes ago. Don’t waste time on a guy who gives you that whole “I don’t know if I’m in love with you” garbage. I did and it was a huge mistake.
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I don’t want to be harsh, but he knows. He doesn’t think he loves you, but he’s hedging his bets, keeping you holding on until he knows whether it will go anywhere with this other girl. He just wants to have his cake and eat it.
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holy crap you’re still alive. 🙂 i’d leave…..if he cares he’ll follow, and make an effort, if not, you’ve moved on and can find someone who will make an effort to care. @};————
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But you do know when you’re in love. It’s just really hard to tell someone you DO care about that you aren’t in love with them. You have more than supported him and while he may deserve your friendship, it’s time to take anything beyond that back.
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Oh, sweetheart. I think you deserve to be with someone who knows.
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ryn – I’m so sorry. You’re right, though. It is time. Love to you.
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