This is for you….TAP…you’re out of my life!

To all the women out there…

here’s to all those girls who used to be his number one.
the ones who waited all night for him to call,
only to check the called iD the next morning and be disappointed.
the ones who made it through that bitter break up, dried your own tears, and moved on with your life, only to have him walk back in it months later like nothing ever happened.
those of you who cried on the first day you talked again because you knew exactly where this phone call was goin.
the ones who listened to him say,
i only want to be your friend, one day, and the next, listened to him say how much he loves and misses you.
we deserve something, and this is our tribute.

here’s to the ones that took him back, hopin that maybe this time, he was different, hoping that maybe people really do change.
we listened to our friends tell us that we were stupid for even thinking about givin him another chance, caught shit from our parents, and even snuck around to see him for a while.
we went through the great stage with no fights all over again.
we started this out thinkin it would be just friends, and ended up fallin in love with him again.
we wanted nothing more in the world than to hear him tell me too, that even though things were bad in the past, they would be different this time.
and when we finally heard it, it was like we were dreaming.
this is for us.

here’s to the ones who believed what he said, sat around all over again waitin for a phone call that might come in a few hours, or a few days.
here’s for the tears cried and dried all over again.
we wanted so desperately to believe that he was really busy, he couldnt possibly call us at that moment, or even that he fell asleep early.
we trained ourselves to believe the lies because we wanted to believe we had found "the one" for us. we learned to SETTLE for someone who didnt treat us the way we should be treated.

here’s for the ones who did their hair and make up and out on their prettiest earrings, only to hear him say that he couldnt see us today.
the ones who never believed it when people told us there might be someone else.
we just couldnt believe that he could do this to us again.
this is for those great girls, who loved him more than words can say, and took him back no matter what happened last time because they couldnt bear to look back on their lives one day and wonder "what if".

this is for the girls what stayed up all night long listenin to him whine about an ex girlfriend who cheated on him, and cried during the entire conversation.
the ones who hoped he would realize that he deseved better, that he deserved us.
when he said that he loved you, but he was in love with her, he didnt mean it.
this is for the ones that held on to something that was never there to begin with.
this is for us girls, who somehow managed to get him to forget about her, and got him to tell us that he was in love with us again, only to have him tell us three weeks later that "things were goin too fast, he needs time."

here’s to the girls who couldnt cry to their friends because of how stupid they felt.
the ones who held it all in when things came crumblin to pieces again.
this is for the ones who couldnt bear to even tell their mom what was goin on, for fear of an "i told you so."
the ones that could just TELL that they had made a mistake ever allowin him into their hearts and their dreams again.

we knew that we deserved better the entire time, that we deserveda guy who would call when he said he was goin to, one that would come see us whenever he got the chance, one that would really care about us.
we just wanted the one that we loved like that.

here’s for the ones that FINALLY realized that he never gave a shit about them.
here’s for the time that he broke your heart again.
this is for those days spent tryin to hold back the tears, and the tears that turned into anger, then disappointment.
here’s for us girls who finally realized that we deserve better.
this is for those confusin days, when you miss him, and want nothing more than to hear his voice, or feel his arms around your waist.
stay strong, and remember that relationships are like broken glass, sometimes its better to leave it alone rather than try to put the pieces back together and get hurt.
remember the times you cried, and how long it took you to even be able to look at another guy like that.
when "your song" comes on the radio, turn the station.
when the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made and tries callin, turn your phone off.
when he tries comin to your house, dont answer the door.
think of the broken promises, and the lies

, the manipulation and the tears, the wasted moments and stayin up all night wonderin where the hell he was.
think of how your heart used to jump when our phone would vibrate in the middle of the night, and how it fell to your stomach when you saw it wasnt him, and realized that once again, he hadnt called when he said he was goin to.

one day, youll find a guy whos worth all the tears, but he wont make you cry.
you may think that youll never care about someone like you did that guy that you always ran back to, but you will.

its gonna hurt like hell, and its goin to need time to heal, but the point is, it will heal

~~Much Love and Peace~~