Matters of relationship logic.

Ok. Here we go, another question explained by a scenario.

A woman is involved with a man in a relationship, she knows this, yet continues to be involved, hoping he will break up with his present girlfriend and go out with her. Disregard any type of closeness as this is irrelevant.

If he is cheating on her..why do you think he won’t cheat on you?

Secondly, Why do some women who do this, as not all do do it at all? Why involve themselves with a cheater, especially if that is a quality she hates?

Thirdly, if she does, what makes her think he will break up with the girlfriend for her?

The man is (pardon the phrase)”getting the milk for free” so why ” buy the cow ” ? Or so might be the logic of a cheating man, so I’ve been told by men of aforementioned nature.

Once again, this is not a reflection all women, just the types which fit into this category.

But anyway, feedback, insight, however you wish to release it is welcomed…

I know what you mean, and i agree….why go out with a man who has a gf…its just WRONG

All morality aside, love/lust cannot be explained or made sense of. Asking why we do stupid things for the sake of love is pointless.

I find it interesting and even a bit offensive that you seem to place all the blame for these relationships on the women. Lest you forget, the men do have some hand in it.

Man or woman, if a person gets involved with someone already in a committed relationship, they are to blame. The person cheating with the cheater is not a victim, but just as wrong as the cheater is.

to answer your question.. i am not able to see cory. we do love each other, in a sense.. i am not being dishonest by going out with someone else.. like they say, your first love is the one you remember always.

I think some people are attracted to people who are already taken. There’s a challenge in that. And they don’t care to maintain a relationship with that person after they get them to break up with their current somebody.

Then there are people who become so attracted to someone else that they ignore that the person is already taken… they try to “win” the person and don’t consider that to do so they must get the person to cheat…

…and that, by doing so, they are likely to make the person lose respect for them as well as teach them to devalue relationships in general.

Then, some people try to rationalize things… she’s done him wrong, so it’s okay and I won’t do him wrong, so he won’t cheat on me… that type of thing. Guys can think that way, too. (So don’t beat me up, b

(So don’t beat me up, bluechair!);)