OH MY What a FRUSTRATING Day…

OH MY What a FRUSTRATING Day… My Mom has been on a roll ALL day not to mention all the stress I already have. She is being hateful to the max about the kids situation. On the other hand Kerry is being a gem. He sat with me and talked for over an hour tonight about my day as I continued to bawl as I have ALL day long. For those of you that do not know I have an apartment in what was my Dad’s shop so I could help my Mom with stuff she needs as well as my Dad. Well she does NOT like kids heck we were told all our life how she didn’t like kids and didn’t want any. Heh and there we were. But anyways, I was to help her go to the airport to pick up my brother, his wife and his Mother-in-law and today I was told I was NOT going to the airport with the kids if she had to make 2 trips to get luggage she would. She wanted me in MY own apartment out of her house and I was shunned from Christmas and told how "I" ruined HER holidays because I have my daughters children. Kerry told me that, that portion of the house was hers and if that was how she wanted it I was welcome at his home or to stay in my apartment she makes the rules for her portion of the house. Also IF she wanted to be hateful and make 2 trips to the airport that was her choice, she was the one ruining her Holiday because of her intolerance. SO I guess it will be me and Kerry and the kids for Christmas and I will not be allowed in her portion of the house. She hasn’t spoke to me all day since she went off on me this morning. She talks to MY dog and that is it. She ignores me. When I went to help her with supper she walked to the other side of the kitchen as if to say ok fine you cook dinner and didn’t do anything else as far as getting dinner ready. If I liked being treated hatefully and enjoyed being shunned and discarded I would say this was a PERFECT DAY
Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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December 19, 2006

🙁 *hugs*

December 19, 2006

Your mother sounds like a very selfish woman.

December 20, 2006

I’d say your mom is mighty lucky you are there and I bet the other people come to visit you while they are there.