Asking A Question…

Should I keep my mouth shut or continue making my point know? I am so frustrated with my middle daughter. As most of you know her story I will briefly post a tidbit. She is 27 years old, has been married 2 times and lived with countless others. She has 2 children one that is 8 a son, and a daughter that is 4 years old. They are sweethearts and I love them dearly. Her son’s dad has NEVER seen him or paid him any attention he was married when she got pregnant with him. Her daughters dad is on death row in Texas for killing a police officer. He also had thrown knives at her and left knives in the porch after cutting her kids screens. She is SUPPOSE to be divorcing her present husband, which is in jail for armed robbery, drug charges and auto theft. These are the men she drags in and out of her children’s lives. She just got out of jail herself in May. She is currently moving from Wyoming to N.C. with her dad. She was suppose to get a divorce per the plea agreement and not live here, where she was from. Well she hasn’t gotten a divorce says she will when she gets to N.C. we will see. But, my problem is that I got on YAHOO the other day and she has on her thing "View my webcam"…ughh I said to her in a message what are you doing? She stated she was talking to this guy in Iraq from Ft. Bragg. I told her whatever and asked her what her children were doing and she said they were playing. Well why are you not playing with them then was my thought. Geeeezz you just got out of jail not to long ago and you missed a ton of time. I told her that it was ok for her to be alone that she didn’t need a man that she should pay attention to her children that they were her responsibility and should be number one. She stated they were. Well it appears that way! She told me to call my Grandson which I did and talked to him for a bit. I can’t wait to see him and his sister. I also talked to her. It is just real hard to understand her on the phone since she has had hearing problems for so long. Unless you can look at her and see her sign or what she talks about you just kind of have to act excited. That is another thing when my daughter called me the other day I asked where the kids were and she said outside. I heard my grand-daughter come in and I talked with her a bit all the while her Mom was hollering for her to get her shoes. I then talked back to my daughter where I asked her why her shoes were not on since she is suppose to have them on all the time during the day with her leg braces on. She stated she didn’t like them. Well big freaking deal!!! She is suppose to be the parent. How does she think her legs might get better if she doesn’t do what the Shriner’s Docs told her to do. She has got to be the most frustrating child well woman. Sorry got off track!!…. Anyways to get back on the subject of this "man" she is talking to she goes last night in a message he is so sexy and hot mom!". She does this to just push my buttons as she does when she tries to act all ghetto and talk using Ebonics. She knows this ticks me off because I told her again for the hundredth time if you can not talk to me using English just STOP messaging me. I told her she did not want her kids acting like they were stupid because they were not. They are intelligent children. She told me to stop and I told her whatever and got off the messenger.  I have ALWAYS said if those kids survive their mother. It just frustrates me to no end. Sorry for the major ramble I am just ticked off at her. I am ticked because she thinks she always has to have a man, because she doesn’t pay attention to her children, because she makes such horrible choices in her life then blames others. Hhhhhhhhhhhhhh I am so going to try to keep my mouth shut while she is here with the kids on Saturday. I figure it is just Saturday afternoon until Sunday morning early when she will just be on her way. I hate having to walk on eggshells around her but I want to see the kids and they miss me and love me as much as I love and miss them.
Pray I keep my mouth shut!!
Hugsssssssss