flippin idiot!

ever since adriel and i parted ways with our romantic relationship and feelings, he has become more and more distant all together. we always said we would be friends till we were old, wed be at eachothers weddings, we would always be there for one another. and yet, i didnt send him a christmas present, and he didnt send me one, and he didnt send me a birthday present either. but we still call eachother best friends. and he told me that he and angela broke up, and he didnt call me. not once. i thought id be the first person he would call if something serious like that happened. i was alwys the one he would call if he needed to talk about something. i was always there for him and thats all i want to do is be there for him like ive always been here for him. but it seems like he doesnt feel the need for a best friend anymore, that he should just shut himself up and deal with things all on his own. he makes no effort to call me or reply to my e-mails , and so ive decided that im going to stop putting my effort into making him happy if he doesnt care. he doesnt seem to care that i want to be here for him, so then i wont. i dont know what to call us anymore because it doesnt seem at all that we are still best friends. he doenst treat me like a best friend and he doesnt tell me things or come to me for support like best friends do. its like he suddenly decided "i dont need you anymore" and it hurts. because he is still one of the first people i want to call when something exciting happens to me or if im sad. i just dont get that guy. hes never shut me out before until now. well if thats the way its going to be then thats the way its going to be i guess. 🙁