WHAT IS HE THINKING?

My hubby has never been that interested in sex. I always had to initiate it. He almost never did. So let me tell you that we haven’t had sex for over 25 years. To tell you the truth I don’t miss it. I never thought there could be a problem with him physically but now I do. When he went to his prostate doctor he found out that his testosterone level is VERY low. I think that would have something to do with his sex drive. Well yesterday he went for a checkup and he came home with VIAGRA!!!!! What the hell is he thinking? Last time he came with CIALIS. He said it made him nautious or something. I wonder if he is ashamed to tell his doctor that he doesn’t have sex or is not interested at all. I didn’t know what to say to him when he told me his doctor gave him VIAGRA. He didn’t say anything more about it. I don’t think at this stage of my life and with my aches and pains I am interested. I am NOT attracted to him at all. It would be nice to hug and cuddle once in awhile but I got so use to not that I guess I can live without it. I am sure he will not DO anything but it is interesting that he brought home the VIAGRA. He might be waiting for a sign from me but at this stage I could care less so it ain’t going to happen. It’s totally up to him. I’ll keep y’all posted!

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August 15, 2007

I would feel the same way you do, I’m sure! hugs, Weesprite

Who knows… it could be the spice you need to liven up your life! 🙂 You *have* been feeling a little bored and depressed. C’mon… give us a great ‘part 2’ to this entry. 😉

August 15, 2007

i’m sorry to say but i think thats so sad that you’re not attracted to him any longer. i know that most couples aren’t after a while. but man, i dono. sex is really good for your health and for a relationship (within a marriage anyway) its a way to express your love to one another and embrace the love you have. consider it at least. stop by my diary osmetime.

August 15, 2007

if he has low testosterone you would think they’d try to treat that first before giving him the viagra. its odd.

Hee hee hee! A great entry! I’ll be waiting for the update!

August 15, 2007

That is just crazy! Who knows what was going through his mind.

August 15, 2007

This is interesting. I’ll be waiting for the update too.

August 15, 2007

It just made me think – is his only way of telling you that he still loves you is to show you the viagra bottle? That would be such a man thing to do. I DO miss sex. alot.

Moving furniture around – and now Viagra?? What’s next??

August 15, 2007

Wow I can’t imagine not having sex for 25 years! I haven’t had sex for about 3 years and it is driving me nuts. I’ve worn out a lot batteries. I never thought it would take me this long to find a guy to have sex with!

Maybe a little sex would improve the aches and pains. I’d give it a try at least once, and if you like it more than once! ** giggling ** Maybe it’s hubby’s way of “breaking the ice” about the topic.

August 16, 2007

I couldn’t imagine 25 years without it! I think they need some kind of VIAGRA for women who aren’t interested. I can’t wait to read an update to this entry LOL!

Oh my gosh! My question is, why can’t men just GET OLD? All this viagra and cialis stuff makes ME nauseous! I really think sex is about telling themselves and OTHER MEN that they do it — I really don’t think they enjoy it that much — I really don’t!!!

Throw that viagra out and replace it with a good vitamin. He won’t know the difference.

^^ LOL or maybe with tic tacs if you don’t want any.