TWO SIDES OF THE SAME COIN

I took my grandson out this afternoon. We went out for supper. He wanted to go to Little Ceasar. I said ok because he had suggested it last week and I decided instead to go to Pizza Hut. This time I gave in BUT we had to sit on stools. It wasn’t comfortable and I prefer Pizza Hut. So while I was sitting on the stool I started to feel mad that I had given in. I felt frustrated that I was eating pizza again. Then I told myself to be GRATEFUL that I was spending time with my grandson and I should be happy.

There are so many situations when I can look at things both ways. I always choose to be negative. I don’t know why. I just can’t stand compromising. I can’t accept doing things I don’t want to.
For example I am again at the country. Hubby waited for me. So I guess the positive side is that he wanted me to come. He could have left this afternoon. I don’t know if I would have come or not. Probably I would have. Now I’m trying to decide what to do for the next three days. I can go shopping and charge things or I could just be happy, relax and work on my hobbies.

There was a program on the radio today about children – that is some think they are much happier without children and never plan to have them. I’m not sure what I would do if I had a chance to start again. Children do take an emotional and financial toll on a person.

Anyhow I am at the trailer and maybe just maybe I can be positive this weekend. Positive that I’ll be happy and content and relax or maybe just maybe I’ll be negative and go shopping and spend way more than I should. I realize I have the choice. What will I choose? What will I do? Stay tuned.