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Just before, my hubby came to tell me that I didn’t have to worry about that woman anymore. He hasn’t had an email from her for about a week. He feels that she will not want to play golf with him too often anymore. Maybe because she thinks I am uncomfortable with it. Hubby thought I would be happy hearing that but I’m not. I see that there was some type of attachment. More later. Lunchtime.
She did email to tell him that she was on her way home. She was driving. In a way it didn’t make me feel better because it confirmed that he did have feelings for her. I wavered. Maybe he should have this experience for whatever it is. After all he is 76 and what "fun"does he have. Maybe this is a stupid way to look at it. Then I was upset because I know that he likes her and will be very disappointed if she stops playing golf with him. He said that maybe she worries about what others think of them being together so often. So time will tell. I would like to be a strong woman and just NOT care if they do spend time together. Whatever will be will be. I have always wanted to try living alone so this would give me a chance. On the other hand I don’t think he would leave but you never know. If she makes him feel GOOD by spending time with him you never know where it could lead. That’s what I said to him. I don’t think men and women can be just friends in most cases.
Well this afternoon we spent a couple of hours in the hospital. My friend who had the back operation is in terrible pain. The other one is just weak and sick after a serious operation. He may need chemotherapy. One thing is that they both have wonderful children. Their children are in the hospital most of the time or they take turns.
So we came home, had supper and I threw whatever was left out. Thank goodness tomorrow Passover is over. I can’t wait to go out to eat!
Now to watch TV and continue crocheting my super large cushion in all colours of the rainbow.
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Well at least your hubby respects your feelings about her, mine never did.
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I am glad he told her how you felt though, and maybe she is trying to ‘do the right thing’. That can’t be bad. hang in there.hugs p
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Your husband sounds like a reasonable man.
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