SO IT’S OFFICIAL! I’M A BITCH!!!!!!!
YEP!! I’M A BITCH! I am very frustrated, a bit angry and disappointed. We have some very old and good friends who are in West Palm Beach. He has been sick and in pain. At home they live in Ottawa so we don’t see them too often. They don’t come to Montreal anymore since they don’t have anymore living relatives. So if we want to see them we drive to Ottawa. Anyhow we saw them a few weeks ago. Three close friends from here went to see our girlfriend. She invited a friend to come with. Well we were driving all they way to see HER!!!!!!!
Now I made plans to go visit her again as I knew she would appreciate it. WELL she invited another couple who I know she is very close to. I am unhappy because we wanted to spend time with them – not her friends. She asked my husband if he minded and of course he said no. What else could he say but I would like to cancel. Last time I talked to her friend the whole time. She was very friendly. It’s just that we thought we would be four very old friends and could talk about old times.
Hubby and I wanted to go to a special restaurant near them. The other couple doesn’t want to!!!!!!!!
I wonder if there’s a nice way to tell our friends that we prefer to go with them alone.
I packed my overnight bad tonight.
I finally sold my accordion tonight. He’s sending me money with Western Union. $650. I have to pay shipping. It will be great to have some extra money. I’m amazed at how easy it is to sell things on Craig’s List.
So that’s my story for today.
yeah, i sold something on craigslist and it was so easy and satisfying. i should do it more.
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OH my, be careful with the western union thing. I have heard of a lot of people being scammed on Craigslist that way.
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I have had that same problem before, thinking I was going to be spending quality time with a friend and then finding out she had invited thus-and-so person as well. It makes ya wonder what’s wrong with them, doesn’t it??!! Why not just come right out and say “gee, I’d really hoped we could spend some good quality time with just you, reminiscing about times we have shared, etc. How about we re-schedule our visit for some other time when it can be just us four?” If she doesn’t like it….well, I guess you’ll know that the friendship doesn’t matter as much to her as it does to you. But she might really feel complimented to know that it’s so important to you to have quality time with her! hugs, Nicky
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That’s unfortunate. I would feel the same way and in fact, have. Sometimes it’s okay to include others, but other times it doesn’t feel right.
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Yeah watch out for Craiglist there are a lot of dishonest people on there
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i think my feelings would be hurt if a friend invited others to a group thing like that. but, i would tell her that i expected it to be us and not with the other people and would like to visit with her when it’s just her. hopefully, she won’t get mad about it. but, if she does…. well, maybe the friendship was as important to her. take care,
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