ROUTINES AND FRIENDS


 

 

 

After I read Woodsprite’s entry I decided to write my own ideas on friends dropping by and routines that I have.
I have always hated when people just dropped by. From the time I was first married I always told friends that they should call even it was from the pay phone on the corner. I don’t like people dropping in. What if I am planning to nap or just busy with whatever. So I never have the problem of friends and/or family dropping by. I think it was a lot more common many years ago when people lived in the same small community.
I have a routine for most of my days but not usually a schedule. I don’t like schedules where you have to do anything at a special time. I do like routines. I think schedules cause a lot of stress and families need to be careful when setting one up. I think children do well with routines but it doesn’t have to be at a set time everyday.
In the morning I usually start off by checking my email and coming to OD. I usually have breakfast right after. I read the newspaper as I eat breakfast. I usually sit at the same table here and at home. On Sunday i will often sit with hubby in the Florida room if we are eating at the same time. Here in Florida I have started to go swimming right after breakfast but the time might not be the same everyday. So WHAT??????????????
When I come back we usually have lunch and in the afternoon each one is different. Many afternoons I have a nap about four to six.
We have supper between six and seven. Most evenings we stay home and I go online or work on crafts. Hubby usually goes to bed earlier. I usually go about ten.
We still have the heat on. It’s so cold. The weather is certainly different and changing.
On the ship I had time to work on my needlepoint.
My  bugs are back in full force. Tomorrow I WILL call a company to get rid of them. Now I also have small black ones that look like ants. Why are they in my kitchen??
My hubby called a company who came today and fixed my toilet. Thank goodness. It was starting to stink already.
So I’ll call it a day and go to sleep.
If you want something fun to listen to go to ITUNES and listen to AVENUE Q. I don’t know if I could include some here or not.
Good night.


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January 7, 2010

I hate when people just stop by… most everyone has a cell phone… freakin’ use it… “hey are you guys busy… was in the area… mind if I stop by” etc… it’s reall ynot that hard!

January 7, 2010

My family never stops by, they live 700 miles away LOL

January 8, 2010

i don’t have any friends here so i don’t have to worry about anyone just dropping by but blake!! i have a routine, too. just not much of a schedule. take care,

January 8, 2010

The ants are probably coming in because of the cold. They do that here.

I agree with friends & or family just dropping in un-announced, too. I also had established with my friends and family, years ago, to please call first. When the kids were little, sometimes my house was messy, as they played and so on, just living!! But, now, here in MN. my best friend moved away and I don’t really have any friends, here. I do have a lot of family, but, they always call first, too. I prefer routines over schedules, too. Bugs and or mice come in to get out of the cold. I hope the co. can get rid of all of them!!! BigHugz…