PASSING THE PURPLE HAT TO YOU

 

 


Passing the Purple Hat to You
 
IN honour of women’s history month and in memory of Erma Bombeck who lost her fight with cancer. Pass this on to five women that you want watched over.. If you don’t know five women to pass this on to, one will do just fine. 

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER – by Erma Bombeck
 
(written after she found out she was dying from cancer). 

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren’t there for the day. 

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage. 

I would have talked less and listened more. 

I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded. 

I would have eaten the popcorn in the ‘good’ living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace. 

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth. 

I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband. 

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed. 

I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains. 

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life. 

I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn’t show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. 

Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I’d have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.. 

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, ‘Later… Now go get washed up for dinner.’ There would have been more ‘I love you’s, more ‘I’m sorry’s.’ 

But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute; look at it and really see it; live it and never give it back.. STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!

Don’t worry about who doesn’t like you, who has more, or who’s doing what 
Instead, let’s cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us… 

If you don’t mind, send this on to all the women you are grateful to have as friends. 
Maybe we should all grab that purple hat earlier. 
Please send this to five phenomenal women today in celebration of Beautiful Women’s Month. 
If you do, something good will happen–you will boost another woman’s self esteem. 
KEEP IT LIT! 
IN MEMORY .. . .. . …. 
These are the colours that represent the different cancers. 

 

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February 16, 2012

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February 16, 2012

an oldie but a goodie. hugs p

February 16, 2012

I always liked Erma Bombeck. This was really nice. Love,

February 17, 2012

like the entry – but the pics did not come up for me. I love the phrase ‘stop sweating the small stuff’ – I’ll try to keep that one in mind. Best, A

February 17, 2012

i have always loved erma bombeck! she could sure write. take care,

She was always one of my favorites.

February 17, 2012

I love this. It reminds me of the Red Hat Society. I don’t know if you ever heard that poem but I loved it when I was very young. My mother cross stitched it for my grandmother when I was about 14. I want to be that woman. RYN: Thank you, you have no idea how much I appreciate someone caring. My family sure doesn’t seem to notice. They are more worried about the parties they plan to hold than what is going one in my world. I tell them and they brush it off.

February 17, 2012

I have copy and pasted the poem for you in case you’ve never seen it. If you have that’s cool. I’m sure others will enjoy it. I want to be a woman like the poem suggests when I’m older.

February 18, 2012

I received this through email last year, I think, and it is very true.

February 19, 2012

RYN: DM put the rumor to rest. OD is NOT dead: http://www.opendiary.com/entryview.asp?authorcode=C100003&entry=20336 🙂

Thank you for sharing this 🙂

February 20, 2012

This is the first time I’ve read this and I love it! I miss Erma. Thanks for sharing. 🙂