NEWS FROM GINGER-ok

So what should I write about?

My gorgeous son who went on a date and came home to tell me he wasn’t physically attracted to her?

My sister who is here?

Yom Kippur which is tonight and I could care less?

(…In the seventh month, on the tenth day of the month, you shall afflict your souls, and you shall not do any work … For on that day he shall provide atonement for you to cleanse you from all your sins before the L-RD.
-Leviticus 16:29-30

Yom Kippur is probably the most important holiday of the Jewish year. Many Jews who do not observe any other Jewish custom will refrain from work, fast and/or attend synagogue services on this day. Yom Kippur occurs on the 10th day of Tishri. The holiday is instituted at Leviticus 23:26 et seq.

The name "Yom Kippur" means "Day of Atonement," and that pretty much explains what the holiday is. It is a day set aside to "afflict the soul," to atone for the sins of the past year. In Days of Awe, I mentioned the "books" in which G-d inscribes all of our names. On Yom Kippur, the judgment entered in these books is sealed. This day is, essentially, your last appeal, your last chance to change the judgment, to demonstrate your repentance and make amends.

As I noted in Days of Awe, Yom Kippur atones only for sins between man and G-d, not for sins against another person. To atone for sins against another person, you must first seek reconciliation with that person, righting the wrongs you committed against them if possible. That must all be done before Yom Kippur.

Yom Kippur is a complete Sabbath; no work can be performed on that day. It is well-known that you are supposed to refrain from eating and drinking (even water) on Yom Kippur. It is a complete, 25-hour fast beginning before sunset on the evening before Yom Kippur and ending after nightfall on the day of Yom Kippur. The Talmud also specifies additional restrictions that are less well-known: washing and bathing, anointing one’s body (with cosmetics, deodorants, etc.), wearing leather shoes (Orthodox Jews routinely wear canvas sneakers under their dress clothes on Yom Kippur), and engaging in sexual relations are all prohibited on Yom Kippur.

As always, any of these restrictions can be lifted where a threat to life or health is involved. In fact, children under the age of nine and women in childbirth (from the time labor begins until three days after birth) are not permitted to fast, even if they want to. Older children and women from the third to the seventh day after childbirth are permitted to fast, but are permitted to break the fast if they feel the need to do so. People with other illnesses should consult a physician and a rabbi for advice.

Most of the holiday is spent in the synagogue, in prayer. In Orthodox synagogues, services begin early in the morning (8 or 9 AM) and continue until about 3 PM. People then usually go home for an afternoon nap and return around 5 or 6 PM for the afternoon and evening services, which continue until nightfall. The services end at nightfall, with the blowing of the tekiah gedolah, a long blast on the shofar. See Rosh Hashanah for more about the shofar and its characteristic blasts.

It is customary to wear white on the holiday, which symbolizes purity and calls to mind the promise that our sins shall be made as white as snow (Is. 1:18). Some people wear a kittel, the white robe in which the dead are buried.)

My trip to New York which is on Tuesday. I am not excited yet but will be once I get in the car and know I am really going?

My terrible shopping spree over the last few days? Then I am broke at the end of the month?

I dropped a piece of paper in my keyboard and now my letter h is broken off?

Why can’t I change the size of the font now?

My brother – in – law who needs a triple by-pass and is terrified?

I guess I will go back to bed after reading a few more of your entries.

 

 

 

My terrible shopping spree over the last few days? Then I am broke at the end of the month?

I dropped a piece of paper in my keyboard and now my letter h is broken off?

Why can’t I change the size of the font now?

My brother – in – law who needs a triple by-pass and is terrified?

I guess I will go back to bed after reading a few more of your entries.

 

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Fascinating, thank you! I want to hear about your shopping spree.

October 1, 2006

Thanks for all the information about Yom Kippur. I like the idea that only sins between a person and God can be atoned for in a certain way, but sins against other people have to be righted in other ways. It’s true, I think that telling God we’re sorry we hurt another person, certainly doesn’t do the other person any good! So it doesn’t “right the wrong.” Gee, I’m sorry about your letter h key andthe other tidbits of less-than-good news. I hope you get to go to New York, and have a wonderful time! Incidently, I was interested in what you wrote about people wearing white and what that signfies; I just now posted an entry about colors, etc., myself. hugs, Weesprite

October 1, 2006

I didn’t know about all that info, thanks for sharing. All the pics were of Johnathan, don’t have any of landan lately since he is never here but to pick up bubba once in awhile but they both have birthdays this month and will have pics of them from their party when their mom has it. Have a good day and a great trip.

October 1, 2006

Happy Yom Kippur to you and yours Ginger, great info about it. Lots of interesting questions here too.. made me stop and think including your question to me. (Mrs. L is married though) but good point.

October 1, 2006

Thanks for the info, I was not all that familiar with the meaning of Yom Kippur. Hope you have a nice trip to NY!

Thank you for the good info on Yom Kippur. I am sorry your brother-in-law is so terrified. I will pray hard for him. I hope you feel less burdened really soon. I know it is difficult, when so much is on one’s plate. I will still pray for YOU, as well. big hugzzz..

Thanks I enjoy reading your customs. They seem so special.