IT’S NOT MY FAULT

So often hubby and others think I am whatever. Well the truth is, it’s their problem usually – not mine. I am who I am! I can’t be like them! I can’t be who they want me to be.

 

 

I am not a patient person. I am with children but with adults I EXPECT A LOT MORE. So I don’t have patience. That is why I like to be alone and often choose to be alone. My sister would like to spend a lot more time with me while I am in Toronto. Well I came to be with and help my SIL. If I have a free hour or two I am NOT going to call her because I need some time alone. I’m sorry. That’s just the way I am. 
I have no patience for people who can’t make up their own mind. I understand that they want to take me into consideration and do what I want. BUT if I ask you where do you want to go or where do you want to eat I would at least appreciate a suggestion. You do LIVE HERE!!!!!!! They want me to decide everything!! Tonight we are going out for supper. It’s my sister’s birthday tomorrow. Do you think she could make a suggestion??????????? I guess I’ll have to do it. I’ll call my cousin soon and see what she suggests.

Yesterday was a pretty good day. I went to my SIL about ten. I showed her how to use the KINDLE. It has audio too so my BIL will be able to use it also. I wouldn’t be surprised if they need another one in the end. I stayed till about four. My SIL went out for a few hours. Her hubby and I had a nap. I left about five to come back here to take a shower etc. On the way home I stopped by Pennington to return some t – shirts and get a  few more. I also stopped at INDIGO books. I know my sister would have been thrilled to come with me but she wasn’t on the way and I just enjoyed some time alone.
In the end she joined us for supper and turned out to be a great idea. Otherwise I was just going with my two Sis-in-laws. The conversation would have been the same!!! My sister brightened up the evening and conversation so it worked out great.
So this morning I am going back to my SIL. I’ll encourage her to go out and I’ll stay with her hubby. 
Now I have to make two phone calls and get ready for the day.
Have a cool healthy one.

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July 14, 2010

just be who you are. i know about craving alone time. take care,

July 14, 2010

My daughter loves alone time. We all respect that. Her friends don’t always get it except maybe one. As for making decisions, I get annoyed when people keep looking at you for direction.

July 14, 2010

I like being alone a lot. People really seem to annoy me lately!

July 14, 2010

I’m always the one who decides what we do, where we go to eat, etc. It is tiresome.

My gosh…you spend so much time socializing…I would be grouchy being around other people so much. Once you get used to being alone, you get to where you NEED it. And enjoy it. I love being alone and I can be selective about who I spend my time with. I’m not dependent on other people just to have company. Some people can’t stand to be alone and that’s just something they need to overcome.

July 14, 2010

It would be right and considerate for them to tell you what they want when you ask. It is not fun making decisions for others all the time. Love,

July 15, 2010