IT’S NOT EASY

I know that people, some people think that others should lose weight, stop drinking, stop worrying, grow up etc. They probably should BUT and that’s a BIG BUT……………. for them it isn’t easy. Often it’s not logical. They just can’t do it. Of course with help they might be able to do it. BUT and it’s a big but they have to want to. Also they need a lot of support – probably constant supprt – loving support. They need the strength from others to succeed, to over come, to move forward. Some people just don’t have the inner strength to do it!

I would caution everyone to THINK before they judge or condemn others. To you it might be a simple thing. Why can’t they stop drinking, limit their eating etc. BUT to that person it is very difficult. Who knows why? We each have our own  weaknesses – some more than others. We must be patient with each other and ourselves!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Personally I am very judgemental BUT I try not to be. Not always with success. One thing for sure is I hardly ever tell a person what I’m thinking. I keep it to myself. I might tell my hubby but unless it’s really serious I keep my mouth SHUT!!!!!!!!!!!!

I complain here!!!!

So please think carefully before you judge someone. Realize that what is easy for you to do is NOT necessarily easy for the other person.