HAPPINESS
This is AWESOME … something we should all remember.
A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o’clock, with his hair fashionably combed and shaved perfectly, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today.
His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator,
I provided a visual description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on his window.
I love it,’ he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.
Mr. Jones, you haven’t seen the room; just wait.’
‘That doesn’t have anything to do with it,’ he replied.
Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time.
Whether I like my room or not doesn’t depend on how the furniture is arranged .. it’s how I arrange my mind.
I already decided to love it.
<b style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: small; “>’Its a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
I have a choice;
I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work,
or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do.
Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open,
I’ll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I’ve stored away..
Just for this time in my life.
Old age is like a bank account.
You withdraw from what you’ve put in.
So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories!
Thank you for your part in filling my Memory Bank.
I am still depositing.
‘Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
<b style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: small; “>4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
this is such a touching entry. And one that will stay with me for a very long time. Thank you for sharing this and thank you for the gentle reminder that we only get out of life what we put in. May you have every happiness that your heart desires. Very best, A
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oh …. and a ps – I forgot to mention that there is a huge gap between the end of your entry and the note window. ~A~
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This is beautiful and very very true. 🙂
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yeah, it’s all in the attitude you have. take care,
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This is great; a lesson for all of us.
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I got this in an email a very long time ago. Thanks for reminding me of the message. I needed it!
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Exactly…happiness is a choice. You can be happy with nothing or be miserable and have everything. I choose to be happy.
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Thank you for this. I needed this reminder.
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Thank you. I especially like that last one!
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Freeing my mind from worry isn’t such a simple rule, for me 🙂 I really, really liked this entry 🙂
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Excellent reminder! Yes, our happiness is so governed by our expectations and by our focus – though sometimes it’s rather hard to control those expectations or that focus. RYN: I’m glad you enjoyed our lovely Otway trees.
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I’ve read this before and totally agree. The day is what you make of it.
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Just discovered someone nominated this for Readers Choice. I’m so glad they did! It was truly inspiring and uplifting to read.
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This is a wonderful entry!
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I really liked this. RYN: Yes, he is the sperm donor. I will continue to call him that until he proves he is going to be active in their lives. I hope he doesn’t break Cassidy’s heart. I have a feeling he will though…he’s good at it. Cora is somewhat oblivious.
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