FRIENDS – DO I CARE OR NOT?

 Today I realized that none of our friends have called for a few weeks. I am talking about our friends from the campground. I am not sure if I care or not. They are not "real" friends. I have absolutely nothing in common with the women but I would think they would call after a few weeks. Maybe I’ll call them the coming week to let them know I am still alive and kicking.
I  realize I am not a "good" friend as I don’t keep in touch. I don’t know why. Maybe it’s because I don’t need people. I’m not sure. To be honest I am not lonely and I don’t miss anyone. It’s just the idea that no one calls. They don’t care?????? I guess if I cared more I would call. We spent the day at the condo. I was arranging the kitchen. Hubby was cleaning up. We are so different. he spent time vacuuming the paper which is covering the floors. I thought he was going to go through the stuff that was left from the workmen.
Tomorrow we will stay home and pack and get better organized. I want to label the boxes with bright coloured tape so the movers will know where the boxes go.
We went out for supper and I am dead tired so will get to bed right away. Good night!!!!!!!

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June 11, 2011

Saw you on the front page. Maybe you should call the campground friends…

Friendship takes effort on both sides. It sounds like you don’t even like them, but you’re a bit insulted that they don’t like you more! I say keep them around for casual get-togethers. You’re lucky you have so many people in your life and you’re never lonely.

June 11, 2011

I am not a phone person either, I rarely call anyone and do not really expect them to call me either, it works both ways.

June 12, 2011

maybe they know you are busy packing and cannot really spare much time for a chat. They might call after you move. Hang in there. hugs P