DON’T COME TO MY FUNERAL

yes, it’s best to spend time with family and friends before they die. funerals are for the living. take care,

My dad use to always say this to us when we were little. He use to tell us to visit the living.

Good point! That reminds me of a news story I saw recently of an older man who wanted to spend his ‘funeral savings’ before he died, so he planned a big funeral/party with obituaries, he lay in the coffin and everything. Woah! But funny…

The funeral is more for the grieving family not for the dead person, you go there to support them and offer comfort, at least that is what I think.

maybe, but the family will. As a child someone once wrote in a autograph book I had “Let us not save all our flowers to strew on the graves of the dead, but scatter them on life’s pathway to comfort the living instead. Its so true. hugs p

Yes!!! I totally agree with this. Spend the time with me while I am alive. My daughter and youngest grandson Zach spent their morning with me and we are all going to a Sky Sox game today. Baseball season, and the company picnic, so that will be fun.

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That sounds like something I would say too but I also agree with the noters that the family may need the closure. I wont give them much however as I don’t intend to be displayed or buried. I want cremation. RYN: Thanks for the birthday wishes. So nice…