DEAR SISTER
You will never know how angry I am. I don’t want to start any trouble between us. We are the only two left in our immediate family. Also I understand just how weak you are. I understand that you never did and never will stand up for anything. You are a sad excuse for a person. Your hubby rules you. You are afraid of him!
I don’t need you to help me. YOU NEVER WERE THERE FOR ME! I won’t ever forgive you for being the person you are. Actually I have always "worked" with you as you are. I couldn’t change you. I didn’t even try. I and the rest of the family put up with your husband because we didn’t want to hurt you. We all stood by you. We often begged you to leave him but you wouldn’t/couldn’t. He was your back bone because you never had a hint of one.
So my sister, I would LOVE to tell you exactly how I feel but it would create havoc and you would be devastated. It’s not worth it.
I will soon be going to Florida and will be away from all this. I can’t wait.
🙂 That feels a little better, right?
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hope it feels better getting it down in writing even though you won’t let her see this. hope your time to go to florida hurries up and comes. maybe you could go earlier? take care,
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It is always better to get things out, but deep down this is only hurting you not your sister. If you look at her with compassion instead of comtempt, I think YOU would feel better. Accept her as she is and move on. You are right you are never going to change her.
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I hope you were able to get this out of your system without actually sending it to your sister. ryn: I work part time – as a fill in for a person who has the full time job – whenever she has to take a day off.
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its sad to read this. I also have a sibling who is not a nice person and makes stupid choices…but I could never say I wouldn’t forgive him. A lack of forgiveness can eat away at us and doesn’t heal anything. I know you are angry and hurting about whatever….but I do hope there will come a time you two can work it out. You are sisters after all…. hugs P
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I wish I had family that stood behind me like you have your sister.
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