The Secret…

They say that from each relationship you learn something and that something good comes out of it. I totally agree. This concept became apparent to me once again after my break up with John. I was feeling so down lately, missing him, etc. And then I talked to my friend Jamie. I believe that my conversation with her has lead to my epiphany that maybe I’ve been in these unsuccessful relationships for a reason. Maybe I have been attacted these types of guys to me because that is what I have known for so long and come to expect. The shoe ALWAYS drops, they always disspaoint me, I always ignore glaring red flags. Hell- I always get upset over guys that I don’t even want to WIND up with. Well not anymore!  “Thoughts become things”. Let me explain…

My friend Jamie has been a true inspiration to me. A few years ago I remember a conversation that we had while sitting on the beach talking. She was telling me about this book “The Secret” and how it is focused around the law of attraction and how “thoughts become things”. At the time I was weary of this whole concept. Although sitting on the beach talking about what we “visualized” for our future seemed silly at the time, it was fun and kind of cool to hear about this new perspective. I didn’t think much about it, and went back to my old way of thinking as soon as I was back home. But Jamie didn’t. Jamie used this new concept of the law of attraction to reshape her future. After surviving cancer, and maintaining a positive outlook and using her thoughts to dictate her future- Jamie met her soulmate, and shaped the life that she is happy to lead. She continues to be a positive influence, living proof, and a constant inspiration to me.
So after my breakup, and my conversation with Jamie- it got me to thinking- if I can be so upset over a  breakup with a guy that I knew I was not meant to end up with- and Jamie is still positive after the recent “medical hell” she has been through- then I’m doing something wrong! So I decided to revisit this “Secret” that she had told me about years ago and I have dedicated myself to trying to live out this concept. Not only for relationships, but for all areas of my life. I can only hope to embrace it as well as Jamie has… here goes nothing!
 
 “The Secret” (Written by Rhonda Byrne)
 
The Summary of “The Secret” is the law of attraction
·         The law of attraction says like attracts like, so when you think a thought, you are also attracting like thoughts to you.
·         Thoughts are magnetic, and thoughts have a frequency. As you think thoughts, they are sent out into the Universe, and they magnetically attract all like things that are on the same frequency. Everything sent out returns to the source . you.
·         You are like a human transmission tower, transmitting a frequency with your thoughts. If you want to change anything in your life, change the frequency by changing your thoughts.
·         Your current thoughts are creating your future life. What you think about the mostor focus on the most will appear as your life.
·         Your thoughts become things
·         The law of attraction is a law of nature. It is as impartial as the law of gravity.
·          Nothing can come into your experience unless you summon it through persistent thoughts.
·         To know what you.re thinking, as yourself how you are feeling. Emotions are valuable tools that instantly tell us what we are thinking.
·         It is impossible to feel bad and at the same time have good thoughts.
·         Your thoughts determine your frequency, and your feelings tell you immediately what frequency you are on. When you feel bad, you are on the frequency of drawing more bad things. When you feel good, you are powerfully attracting more good things to you.
·         <span style="color: #333333; font-size: 9pt”>Secret Shifters, such as pleasant memories, nature, or your favorite music, can change your feelings and shift your frequency in an instant.
·         The feeling of love is the highest frequency you can emit. The greater the love you feel and emit, the greater the power you are harnessing.
 
How to Use The Secret
See the things that you want as already yours. Know that they will come to you as needed. Then let them come. Don.t fret and worry about them. Don.t think about your lack of them. Think of them as yours, as belonging to you, as already in your possession..