Heard from Joe
So- I finally heard from Joe. 3 weeks later..and after no response when I had even sent "at this point I’m just worried that you’re okay"….then what do I get? A freakin random @ss string of texts! This is how it went: please note that these are not verbatim because I immediately deleted his texts and phone number and can’t remember the exact words…
Him: “hey – sorry to be just now getting in touch- I hate work right now. I’m in tampa traveling again- wish you could come see me here ;)”
Me: “um…so you are alive???”
Him: “still dead- but back in the country. I wound up getting extended for another week and then had to travel again right away. So u comin? ;)”
Me: “no”
Him: “wow- that sounded like a serious no”
Him: “Guess it was serious..”
Him: “sorry if I pissed you off. Hope you have a good week at work”
Him: “Ok- I will stop bothering you now. Wish to see you sometime but doesn’t seem like it will happen. Let me know if you’re free anytime….”
*** Yes- I waited till the next morning to respond- was not sure what I wanted to say or if I wanted to say anything. So I responded this morning with:
“this is just not what I want in a relationship”
then he responded again:
“sorry I was in Afghanistan and Taliban had several attaches at the end of my time there. I was stuck with no com for almost 2 weeks.”
And that was it and will be my last communication. I deleted his phone number and every text in my phone. I don’t know his number by heart so I will have no way to be weak, or drunk text, etc. As far as I am concerned- he no longer exists…
I do have a lot of feelings going on in my head though- which I will probably write in one of those letters that you never send to someone. But this is the scoop for now…thoughts?
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Him: “sorry if I pissed you off. Hope you have a good week at work”
Him: “Ok- I will stop bothering you now. Wish to see you sometime but doesn’t seem like it will happen. Let me know if you’re free anytime….”
*** Yes- I waited till the next morning to respond- was not sure what I wanted to say or if I wanted to say anything. So I responded this morning with:
“this is just not what I want in a relationship”
then he responded again:
And that was it and will be my last communication. I deleted his phone number and every text in my phone. I don’t know his number by heart so I will have no way to be weak, or drunk text, etc. As far as I am concerned- he no longer exists…
I do have a lot of feelings going on in my head though- which I will probably write in one of those letters that you never send to someone. But this is the scoop for now…thoughts??
“sorry I was in Afghanistan and Taliban had several attaches at the end of my time there. I was stuck with no com for almost 2 weeks. sorry you feel that way”
I think if that is how you truly feel, then I think you did the right thing. It may take some time to really heal, but you should feel good about your strength.
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I think you’re smart, especially for knowing that sometimes the drunken or buzzed dial is overpowering and being proactive to keep yourself sane. If you expressed worry, he could’ve bloody texted at the time; it’s only polite.
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He just seems inconsiderate. And if he’s inconsiderate NOW, he’ll probably be a real wanker when he’s “used to you.”
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I thought he was going to Florida…? And I am pretty sure his claim about a comms blackout 2 weeks long is BS. He def could have e-mailed you or SOMETHING. I definitely think it’s a good idea to let this one go. Sorry he got your hopes up again.
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