Lies, Damn Lies, and Calesha

 I think Calesha makes up stories to make herself seem more interesting to me because she has self-worth issues. But I have no way to prove it and it isn’t fair to assume that she is lying to me without proof. I semi-confronted her on it tonight and she was defensive (unnecessarily so, I think, if she is really being honest with), but still, I really have no way of knowing for certain if she is lying to me or not. It’s absolutely possible that outrageous things just happen to her and I am overly paranoid. And it just seems wrong to take action against someone just because of a gut feeling without knowing anything definitive.

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So, we’re going to the mall on Friday and I’m just going to keep giving her the benefit of the doubt. For now.

 

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oi. good luck with that, matty.

September 23, 2008

I don’t know why you’re still putting up with her.

LOL. “I think she is lying to me and making things up…so we’re going to the mall on Friday.” I love you.

September 24, 2008

Yeah, relationships rarely make a lot of sense, I guess. ~I’ll be

If your gut is telling you something is wrong and she is involved, I definitely think that you should listen to it and be very weary of her. I don’t think that you are being paranoid. In the note that you left me when you answered that she wasn’t too concern about it, my antenna went up. I am like…okay, this chick is acting casual about this person threatening her. MMM……not a good sign! nota good sign! Yet, you are right; you don’t want to flat out break ties with her if you don’t have any evidence…just be careful! I am not saying that she is a sociopath, but when someone is acting hinky like this, you really want to be on the alert. You remind me so much of my boyfriend. He used to have weird feelings about the girls that he used to date/hang with before he met me…and come to find out, his instincts were DEAD ON. These bitches were definitely looney. They f*cked him over royally…almost made him give up on women…and be like screw it…of course, until he met yours truly! I changed his perspective! There are still some sane folks left!!!

September 24, 2008

Keshan gleefully lies about everything, and we still had sex for years and years, on and very off. It got a lot easier on me once I had established she lied about everything. I thought the problem was more than you didn’t really like/fancy Calesha very much…

I’ve had this gut feeling for awhile about her.

September 24, 2008

I feel sort of bad for girls like that…I hope it works out.

September 24, 2008

time for a NEXT!

September 25, 2008

omg, just dump her. for real, i promise it’s not worth it. do you know how many boyfriends i’ve had who lied to me? i knew they were lying but did i listen? no. i gave the benefit of the doubt. follow your intuition, friend!! you are not stupid. <3 <3 <3

September 25, 2008

oh and like savvy, yo said, that is cute how you said it. 😉

September 25, 2008

ryn:Sorry, not saying you should be ok with it or anything, just thinking out loud…

September 27, 2008

ryn: Well yeah, of course.

September 29, 2008

actually, marriage isn’t so bad…. two years ago i swore against it, saying that no one in life would like being married because everyone wants multiple partners (fancy a sex addict saying that?) (oh, i’m the sex addict…). but we just make sense; we’re best friends. one day it might happen– someone sweeping you off your feet. 🙂 at which point you won’t have much of a choice… haha.