Date Three
I saw Calesha again yesterday and, well, it went fine. I’ve talked with her about what she should expect from dating me (and, more importantly, what she shouldn’t expect) and I’m reasonably comfortable with that. Sometimes I still feel like I’m leading her on, but I think it’s more that she seems to like me so much that it makes me feel oddly . . . guilty. Like it’s inherently unfair to keep going out with someone if you sense that they have stronger feelings for you than you do for them. Is it inherently unfair? I don’t know, but I’m at peace with it right now.
On a side note, I need more practice on taking bras off.
RYN – I would say exactly that. You know me so well. Also, yes, practice taking bras off. It’s a turn off (for me at least) when things are going really well and then the guy fumbles around back there. Also, what kind of sheltered girl lets you take off her bra on date three?? Psh. ~I’ll be
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Oh my God. You’re going to lose your virginity to a virgin. ~I’ll be
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I got to the point where I could take bras off one-handedly, haha. However, I’m pretty rusty these days. And then there’s frickin’ sportsbras. Don’t even get me started. I just kind of stare and say, take off your bra. Works pretty well.
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Practice makes perfect.
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Also, seriously: how sheltered can this girl be? Pfft.
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Good luck learning to take bras off…it is tricky for guys to do. You’ll get it..practice makes perfect. Date 3 and there is bra removal?? I’m interested in this information….
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lol.. just when you figure it out she’ll wear the front clasp kind.
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i was going to write exactly what yours for now wrote. you’re going to lose it to calesha, another virgin. i suppose it’s good to do it like that, but, keep in mind the emotional implications that come with it. still think you’re in love with me. step out of denial, dear. 🙂
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Aww, engaging in some heavy under the clothes petting my dear? ^_^
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wow. bra-removal stage already. i’m impressed.
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ryn: Taking bras off of yourself and taking them off of another person [smoothly] is an entirely different matter. 😛
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I don’t understand why bra removal is such an issue for guys. It’s not rocket science! Frankly, I sometimes prefer fumbling to cocky guys who think they’re so cool because they can basically do it without the girl even realizing it’s unhooked. Blah. The Mary is right. You can’t lose it to/take it from this girl. You think she’s soooo into you now? Just wait until you deflower her.
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http://www.wonderhowto.com/how-to/video/how-to-remove-a-bra-with-one-hand-laddie-style-15369/ One handed.
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ryn: really? I think unrealistic optimism about who I could be and what I can manage is one of my biggest problems. And: hah. You clearly are into this girl. And you also clearly don’t like admitting you’ve only ever fancied sheltered immature little girls. Hah!
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Wow yay for learning to take a bra off…you could just do what guys always do to me…just pull it up over my boobs and leave it there. Unless…she they arent big enough to hold the bra up over them…but if they are that works.
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!!!!!!!! That is all.
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