you call that a bachelorette party?
So a dear friend of me and my wife is getting married in less than two weeks. Actually she’s the person who introduced me to Sally back in college. She was also a bridesmaid at our wedding, and Sally will be one at hers. Anyways this past weekend was her bachelorette weekend so her and her bridesmaids headed to Austin
Austin is a good party place for people to go in Texas. It has the famous "6th Street", I don’t know if it’s famous on a national level but it is locally within the state. It’s where my bro and my groomsmen took me for my bachelor party weekend, and we lived it up on 6th Street!
Was their party as successful as ours? Hell no, they didn’t even make it to 6th Street. How could you go to Austin and get hotel rooms off 6th Street and never go to 6th Street? That’s crazy… oh and nobody even got drunk!
The bachelor party had to have been better, right? Actually it most definitely was not. How does it get worse than not getting drunk and not going to the party destination? Not having a bachelor party, his guys didn’t show up, not even his own brother. They all stood him up and he was home alone all weekend (btw, he lives with Sarah [our friend] at Sarah’s mothers house, so he may have been at home with her mom all weekend, haha)
Yea I can laugh about him because I don’t feel sorry for him. I would have if he brushed it off like a man and went on like it’s just another weekend. No he pretty much sabotaged Sarah’s bachelorette weekend instead of letting her go and have her fun with her bridesmaids
See one of Sarah’s mistakes was to bring along Brad’s (the fiancee) best friend since she made her a bridesmaid for Brad’s sake. And this girl, Katherine, pretty much teamed up with Brad to make Sarah feel guilty about having any fun and paranoid that she’s having too much fun
The first half of the bachelorette weekend went ok, went as planned til after the Saturday night dinner. Sarah’s sister hired a stripper to meet them at one of their hotel rooms. Sarah had a blast, the girls had a blast, even Sarah’s gay male best friend had a blast. Everyone except Katherine, she started texting Brad and telling him everything that’s going on. After the stripper left, she sat next to Sarah and said, "You’re getting too wild. You’re wearing a skirt too short and you were having too much fun with that guy"
And that was the start of Sarah’s paranoia. She immediately went to the bathroom to call Brad and came out crying because she was scared she’d gone too far. The rest of the weekend involved Katherine being right next to Sarah whispering negative things in her ear and constantly texting Brad about everything going on and what Sarah was doing
That’s complete bullshit because it’s her bachelorette party! She should be drinking (she yelled at the other bridesmaids, including my wife, not to get her shots because she doesn’t want to get drunk) and having the wildest time of her life! Not to have a parole officer around her trying to find things she’s doing wrong that could upset Brad
Everything is fair game at a bachelorette party short of cheating. Heck I knew there was going to be a male stripper there and I didn’t care my wife was there. It’s expected, it’s typical for a bachelorette party! We’re in a grown relationship, not an adolescent relationship with petty jealousy. That can be viewed as controlling and manipulative. I never even asked my wife what went on at her bachelorette party (although she told me a lot because she likes talking about everything, haha) and she was on Bourbon Street for a weekend!
I don’t know if I support this marriage anymore, I do know I don’t like the guy anymore and won’t care to ever talk to his best friend/parole officer. On Sunday morning, he texted Sarah, "did you dance with another guy?" because Katherine texted him a pic of her dancing with a guy at a club. And they were doing the Dougie! I don’t know if y’all know that, but it’s a certain dance move that doesn’t even involve touching the other person. Just stand there and do a certain move. It was on a list of things she had to do that weekend as a game
It really irks me when you go out of your way to ruin someone else’s milestone moment in life. A bachelor/bachelorette party is a milestone moment. My brother and I still talk about mine and reminisce of all the crazy things that happened. So we smile when we think of it. She can’t smile thinking about hers if she spent at least half of it with a concerned look on her face or a sad look
moral of the story: Karma is a bitch, and he had already done enough in the past to where nobody (not his groomsmen, not even his own brother) cared to do a single thing for him for his bachelor party. It’ll catch up to him again!
Have a Nice Day!