TMI ALERT

So TMI alert….

Anyone have any advice on how to get your man to be more romantic in bed with out flat out asking? He normally is romantic….but the past month or two I feel like he initiates sex by pulling “it” out. I am all for blow jobs I mean he gets one before we have sex every single time and he loves it, so I love giving it….but sometimes its nice to be romantic….kissing first and some love ….instead here it is! And sometimes…thats great. Im all for that sometimes. I just need to be a girl and feel romanced sometimes. I feel like saying “can we get a little romantic” kinda kills some of the romance for me.

Any thoughts?

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April 17, 2011

just nudge him a little about upping his “game”. Try not to flat out say “can we get a little romantic”. Maybe just suggestions here and there. I think 🙂

Switch the bj’s to special occasions only

Maybe just start flirting with him sometime. Leave him lil notes around the house or just send him texts. Sometimes we men think with the wrong head. He definately has it good it you enjoy giving blowjobs. My wife hates giving but LOVES receiving… WTF……. Good luck!!

April 17, 2011

A) it’s not a blowjob unless he cums. If you suck him to get him hard that’s not a blowjob. That’s just pre-game warmups. B) use your pussy power. Tease him, suck him, get him ready for take off then walk out and make him chase you. Tease him then deny him over and over. Once he’s sufficiently weakened, tell him what he’s got to do to get into your panties and don’t give in until he gives it to you. C) repeat until he’s been properly conditioned. D) repay your pal hoops for the great advice by setting him up with the hottest, sluttiest flight attendant you know.

April 20, 2011

I don’t know that either of the above advice is particularly good, but I don’t know that I have any that is any better. I mean, the only plausible solution is to say something like “can we get a little romantic” but doesn’t it really take away from it if you have to ask? Asking for romance isn’t very romantic.