Taking my own advice.

So I decided to go with my gut, and set an example in the bedroom. Thanks for all your advice and I really appreciate it…but as I was reading your responses I came up with my own. Lead by example.

I came over last night wearing a corset and lots of lace…and I ate dinner wearing it…we had the most romantic evening…it was great. No details, sorry…kinda ruins the romance.

Hung out with my girl Ashley today and her beautiful baby girl. This is me and Ryleigh. So cute…I have some serious baby fever…I’ve had it for a while.

Doug and I have decided on Aiden for a boy….but he doesnt like Eden…and I love Eden for a girl. OH well…I suppose we have lots of time to fight it out. lol.

SO….I have told Doug that I want to elope…I have no desire to have a wedding…I want it to be just me and him…and romantic…in some romantic destination. Granted he hasnt really voiced his oppinion on the matter. I think though that he is down.(we have discussed that we are going in the direction of marraige for a long time now)..all I want is a fantastic dress, and great photography. Everything else I couldnt care less about.

So…my friend Ashley thinks I should atleast look at dresses. I’ve always thought you saved dresses for after you are engaged…but what if we decide to do it quickly after we get engaged? Or what if we dont get engaged we just decide to do it?….that is the only reason I have considered trying on dresses one month from today with Ashley. Anyone have thoughts on trying on dresses before you are actually engaged? Ashley thinks I should just buy a dress if I fall in love with it…because even if Doug and I for some ungodly reason break up…I hope to get married some day…..Anyone have any thoughts on this subject?

Looking forward to some responses….