Solidarity / Being Out
Mania. Mania.
Up down
All around
Depression
Crash and
Burn it all down
Again.
And again.
Rinse and repeat.
What year is it?
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My almost 18 year old
daughter came out several
weeks back and all she asked of me was
to please spread the word to the family and
not to buy her a bunch of “rainbow
shit.”
When she’d finished her breathless speech,
I paused, took a sip from my coffee and said,
“Ok. Do we high five now?”
I told her I’d commission
a local
artist to paint our garage into
the gayest flag you’ve ever seen and we gon’
represent!
She laughs.
“I love you, mom. I also hate you. Thanks for being cool.”
It was a beautiful, light-hearted moment that I got to share with her, and she feels strong now
and like she can tell anyone.
We worked together, and she even let her homophobic bigot of a father know.
No word from him since…
I only hope I can support her well.
I’ve asked the universe to give her an
easy road, and for God’s sake don’t let
Them start taking her rights
away.
It’s mother fucking personal now.
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I’ve had journals for most of my life
And I’ve never brought politics
Into them before.
I’ve also never cared this much and
I am nervous as fuck for
this election.
Like loss of sleep, heightened anxiety,
not functioning at optimal
capacity
nervous.
I doom-scrolled Twitter this morning for
some solidarity.
I’ll take what I can get.
*-V.
I don’t have kids, but one of my sisters has a boy and a girl who are both gay, and another one of my sisters also has a gay boy and girl. We joke in the family that something must’ve been in the water we all drank sometime. Even the kids are like, “why are we ALL gay?” Of course I love them as my own and would never want them to be any different than they are. I had to laugh about the Rainbow shit comment because I recently texted a pic of some rainbow hand towels to my niece, asking if she’d like them, and she texted back NO! TOO GAY! Haha
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I envy not having this light hearted moment with my father. He mocked me and kicked me out. You are amazing, she should be proud to have you as a dad.
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