sooo long ago…
I just read my first two entries on this site…. Mr14 was 2 and Mr21 was 9 and Mr9 didn’t exist.. and my now insane ex was ‘my darling man’. lol
Just wanted to write here that something happened inside my soul last week that was really good… I had been wanting it to happen for a while.. I wanted to stop feeling resentful and wanting my and my kids stuff back (that my ex is hoarding behind locked doors). And I did. Just like that. Happy me. Hoping those nasty feeling don’t come back.
Decided that if it makes my ex happy for him to own my old clothes and his kids old toys and all the other stuff… well…. it’s just stuff…I really just don’t find it important any more. The kids don’t care about it now either… they have said..
Other stuff is more important…. like today and tomorrow.. and all the good things that we enjoy about life… right now.. right here..
Yay. Happy. Contented. Grateful for what we have and who we are….
Great breakthrough. Learning to let go myself. And especially of stuff. Stuff just bogs us down and creates more hassle for us. Worth looking up minimalism on the net. It`s the way to go.
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You have a peace that goes beyond understanding. Promised to us by God.
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You’ve got it!!!! Exactly!!!
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Glad to hear this – as time goes on most of it will be irelevant – and sometimes it is kinda nice to get to make new choices, pain though it must have caused. The longer he holds onto it, the less you will care, and it is like being asked to go back into a musty old back room of an op shop when you revist that stuff later – if ever. Take it from me. Look at the sunshine – the shadows will be behind you. 🙂
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Smile
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I’ll be glad when this wet season is over. Plan to sail north to the Whitsundays at least. God knows I deserve that
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