I don’t know
Well I don’t know how to tell him that I am falling in love with him. I mean we’ve only known each other a little over a month. But there’s just something about him. It’s hard to describe. You have to get to know him to understand. He makes me feel alive. I told him how I felt minus the fact that I’m falling in love with him and he was speechless. Which in his case is a very very good thing.I feel like I’m faling my best friend because I left when she needed me most. And because I really do want to be with her but I found a guy who makes me extremely happy and I don’t want to wonder "what if" if I move back. I don’t know what to do. Well I gotta go before I start crying again
Do not leave your friend. You’ve got room in your life for both of them. My advice? Hold your tongue on the “I love you”. Wait a little longer- although it’s hard! You’ve told him how you felt, now wait for a little feedback from him. If you don’t get it right away, it’s okay. Guys tend to pull back a little when we tell them our feelings so give him time to digest it.
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I’ll be ok if you decide not to move back. You just letting me scream and cry at you over the phone is all I need. Of course, you know I want you here, but don’t feel like you’re failing me if you don’t. I really do understand your dilemma. Give it time between you and Bry then re-evaluate. He was helping you make your decision not knowing that you love him the way you do. That isn’t fair to…
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either one of you. So, spend time with Bry, let him know (whenever you deem the proper time) how you REALLY feel about him and then step back and re-evaluate. Then decide which out-weighs the other and then go for it. Just don’t be hasty on a decision this big. I would feel horrible if you jumped just because I asked you to. If you decide Cali is what you truly want then great but I need to know..
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that I’m not the reason you kick yourself (if you do) when (if) you move back. I love you way too much to be selfish about this, as much as I would love to. Do what is right by you. Don’t leave the decision up to anyone else because as much as we all know you and love you, it may not be your best interest we’re really thinking of (even if we all think it is). I want you to not only be happy….
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wherever your feet land to call home, but I want you to be able to be comfortable physically, mentally and emotionally with the home you choose. That’s the best advice I can give you. Remember: if your head and your heart match…then run with it. And don’t let anything/anyone stand in your way. For once live for yourself and let yourself be truly happy. wherever/whatever that means for all of us.
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so, now that i’ve left you a weepy, mushy novel of Katie’s advice column,…I’m gonna leave it at that. and i love you.
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