She wins……..again

I filed for divorce from my wife because she is hurting my kids. I couldn’t make direct accusations because proving munchausen by proxy almost impossible. The only way I could do or say anything way to get the court involved by way of a divorce. But all that I had to say. All of the pictures and the testimony I could have offered from myself and others around me who saw and are concerned means nothing now. And it means nothing because she filed and accusations that was false. She filed a false accusation and I get nailed to the wall. I get treated like a criminal without the benefit or right to prove my innocence. And this is the way it’s been my whole marriage. She does and says what she wants and I have to deal.

I hear a lot in the world about what men do to women. About horrible men are to women. But no one ever talks about women do to men. What women can and do do to men is subtle and nasty. It is every bit as damaging as anything a man can do, just less visible.

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February 8, 2018

I’m so sorry:( my coworker/friend just finalized her divorce from her wife and had a similar experience. Her ex is a thoughtless, selfish, bitter alcoholic. It’s so terrible how the people we love can turn into such terrible monsters.

February 8, 2018

You’re right.

There is an awful lot of crap that women do that affects men.

I was just talking to a friend yesterday about how nice guys always seem to finish.

It’s sad, really, because I know so many men who want to be and do the best they can for their kids but can’t because the women in their lives spin and twist the truth to suit them.

I wish my kids’ dad (my first husband) wanted to be as great as you sound. I suppose in retrospect I am one of those women who comes out ahead but I certainly can recognize that you WANT to do for your kids where, in my kids’ case, their dad does not.

Happy thoughts and vibes to you. Hang in there. (hugs)