Negative!!!

For all who know my recent debacle with finding out my ex (Malcolm) was having UNPROTECTED sex with other women while he was with me (and lying to all of them including me), I’m glad to share that I tested negative for HIV.

Even though I used protection, this is still a huge load off of my mind. It’s also an extreme warning, not just for me, but I know for all of the other women involved. It’s hard to be able to trust people when it is just as likely the other person involved may not even have the basic caring for their own life to protect themselves, and thus you.

No matter how wonderful, honest, upright, etc a guy might seem, if he tries to pressure you into having unprotected sex, JUST SAY NO! And if he gives you indication that he is willing to lie to you about small things, remember that small things become large things, and he may well be lying to you about life and death matters as well. There is no hedging when it comes to honor, and no cut corners when it comes to safety.