Lease is up
Thursday I will be completely moved out of my apartment. I’m glad the lease is finally up, considering I haven’t been living there for a few months and have still been paying my half of the rent. It just got annoying to come home and have Amanda hide in her room when I was there. I don’t think I ever posted the conversation that ended our friendship…
Her:
There is no more cat food. You will have to come and buy some for your cats. My battery died friday so I had to go buy a new one and get my oil changed. I now have maybe 10 dollars until my paycheck makes it into my account so I am only going to be taking care of Katt. It is not my responsibility to take care of your animals and I am not going to do it any more. They drive me crazy and I have grown to quite hate them all. If you are going to rarely be here then you should think about going ahead and taking them to your mom’s.
Got the power bill. its $121.07. I will pay $38.54, you can pay the other $82.52. Adding an extra 5 dollars to your part of the internet payment because the internet bill is going up to 45 dollars this month so we are both going to be paying 5 extra dollars. If you don’t want to pay your half of the internet bill, fine. I will have the wireless password changed and you will not have access to the internet. I can not afford to be generous with money to anyone from here on out. I have to save money for all of my deposits and things I am going to have to get when I move to a new apartment.
First off….she never took care of my cats other than adding food to the bowls when I wasn’t there on the weekends that I was taking care of my grandma. And my grandma lives with my mom, 2 hours away from my apartment. I was the one that cleaned the litter boxes, all the time.
My response:
I’m watching my grandma this weekend. I can’t come home and feed them when you could open a can of wet food and feed them. (Yes, we had cat food there, it was just not dry cat food.)
I’ll move them out asap.
I don’t mind paying extra when there’s a reason for it other than you’re short on money when you could ask for extra just like I do when I spend too much.
You’ve been acting rude via message for a long time now and it’s been really bothering me. What’s going on?? You’re nice to my face, then say stuff like this which you can’t deny has a very rude tone. Imagine if I said something like that to you. You’d be pissed. I mean, you were pissed when I was confused about paying the extra 17 dollars AFTER you told me you were fine for that month, and didn’t tell me I needed to pay it until the day we were paying bills. If I did that to you, would you not be annoyed? You had no right to be mad about telling you that you should have told me sooner. None. Because I was led to believe I didn’t have to worry about it that month, and then the day of I have to pull extra money out of my ass, and I said it wasn’t a problem about the money. It’s that you just expected that I should know.
And when we were splitting the price of all the groceries and at the end you hide your laundry detergent, when technically I should get the use of the rest of it too since the price was split until we went to buying our own stuff. Also, I know what stuff isn’t mine. You didn’t have to split the freaking fridge. If I won’t use them when they’re split, I won’t when they’re mixed.
I have cleaned up after you, wiping off counters when you leave nastiness on them, putting away dishes that you leave out, and you only put away dishes of mine that I leave out when I plan on reusing them. I have been the only one cleaning the litter boxes, and you have a cat too. Once a month isn’t too much is it? Four weeks, four cats, once for you sounds right to me.
I’ve only been gone on the weekends since Mike and I stopped talking. How is that being gone too much when I barely ever see you to even say hey in the hallway?
I can’t read your mind. I don’t know what’s wrong with you. If you absolutely can’t open some cans for my cats this weekend while I’m watching my grandma, then fine. I just know I’d never do that to Katt. And I’ve tried to be nice, but this was the last straw.
I then mentioned the fact that when I told her I was going to be five minutes late home when we were going to go on our spring break trip, she said she would leave without me. I ended up there on time, and packed before she was even done packing. And we had to wait an hour on another girl that was going. And she didn’t say anything to her. So yeah…she’d been acting passive aggressively towards me a lot near the end. And after the Mike thing, I had no problem being like "what the fuck is wrong with you?"
Of course, she never replied to me about what was wrong. She moved all her stuff to her room, like the trash can, so I couldn’t use it. I was the one that took out the trash anyway. <.< And she hid the trash bags….while I was the one cleaning the litter boxes, including her own cat’s.
Anyway, so I moved my cats out and ended up having to get rid of them because my cousin lives with my mom and she is allergic. Amanda now only talks to me to let me know what the utility bill is.
If you don’t tell someone what’s wrong, they can’t fix it. I don’t believe I was too rude, especially considering her snappish attitude that she had had since before Christmas. She even stopped talking to a mutual friend of ours because she was closer to me. *shrug* Every time I go to the apartment to pick up something, there’s cat shit on the floor. Always. Every time. At least I don’t have to clean it up. I took care of that for too long.