Not good.

Maybe i am too nice.

A good friend of mine from hs married her hs sweetheart.  They grew up together and had kids and now those kids are in their 20s.

I only saw her once or twice in the many years we’ve been friends and her laughter was just so contagious. We kept up w each other online and chatted frequently.

Sadly, She passed away a few months ago.

I knew of her husband but was never really close w him. We belonged to some meme groups together and i even helped moderate a few… i invited him to ours many years ago and thats about the extent of it.

He asked about her rememberance day and if i would attend but unfortunately w my kids and my car i was unable to go.

Fast forward a few months later….

Now hes asking me out to dinner.

Ugh.

Now what.