More venting

I’m still really just full of anger over all of this w her father.

I really just want to hold him accountable, even if he doesn’t pay.

Hopefully after I file, that’s the nail in the coffin.

He hasn’t been active in 4 years. Why am I afraid he will try to see her? That would be more damaging to her than it’s worth going to court over. But I also am like, if he hasn’t fought for her by now, why on earth would anyone allow it? Well, because court doesn’t give a shit about the mental health of a child.

So, I can file for abandonment, and then what?

He wouldn’t be held accountable. I really need the advice of a lawyer but apparently the place I applied for doesn’t deal w only support.

It’s just bizarre to me this dude gets off on a Drs note and when I catch him working and not reporting it, they tell me I gotta file for a modification.

Like … I just don’t understand why all of the court order doesn’t apply. He’s working after stating he’s unable to work indefinitely.

He lied. He’s working and I can’t prove for how long but I can provide his current employer.

All they have to do is look for themselves, after i told them. They can see that he’s got assets.

At the same time, I know he will try to worm out of this one.

I’m going to file anyway. Part of me wants to write in the comments accountability, but I’ll have to write something along the lines of significant change in circumstance.

He can quit tomorrow. I proved he’s working. That should be all I need to do.

I just hope I’m not regretting it.

So tomorrow I’m taking my kids to my mom’s and printing everything out.

I’ll show up in person and attach everything I have on it.