Discouraging

Everywhere I read and including myself states it’s law to provide support for your child.

But hey get a Drs note.

That still shouldn’t exclude shit.

You can still pay support on SSDI or SSI.

He’s probably not on either or maybe he is. Idk how to find out other than to go and ask but that would mean going into the town he lives in and showing her paperwork only to find out he’s not really on it at all.

And further, don’t I qualify for my ex husband’s benefits? We were married ten years.

I never received anything in the mail about it.

Back to deadbeat.

I’m going to have to do investigation and I hate seeing his face at all.

I did contact and apply for legal help, hopefully free. I emailed domestics and they’re like ya you could reopen it but he did what he was supposed to.

It’s like they’re protecting him and not doing a damn thing for her.

It states if you don’t report changes, it will revert.

I don’t need a meeting when I friggin pointed right to the pic on the owners website

Smfh.

Anyway do spying it will be.

I asked roommate if I could borrow his phone for a few minutes to check on what I need to and he freaked out.

So forget it. I’ll use my kids phone, create a random profile and use it and delete it while she’s asleep.

If the lawyer calls I want to be prepared.

 

Also I told roommate not to come back. It doesn’t seem to sink into his skull either. I want my peace.

Period.

He has to leave. It’s affecting my children.

 

I’m not sure what my next step will be but he cannot stay here.

Again the Internet wasn’t paid. I told him to call and adjust billing cycle.

And now once again, third year in a row now…. I can’t afford Xmas for my kids. And now w the Internet off and my already unstable cell phone, my sales are going to go south.

I had 14 orders this past weekend.

Highest ever.

I made the electric and my insurance.

I have like not much left.

I still have to pay the rest of his fine for driving my car without a license last year and my renewal for the car.

Oh and food? Haaa. Bare bones once again. We will get by as we always do but I’m tired of struggling.

And I’m going to do everything I can to be sure my job doesn’t get screwed up because of him.

I messed up on my pills too.

Wasn’t five for five days, it was four for five days, then 3 for 5 days, 2 for 5 and then 1 for five.

I figured it out because I was like why only this many pills mfer ripped me off oooooh… Oopsie.

So I take 3 this week. 😂

Dummy.

I have more but I don’t feel like writing.

It’s mostly anger anyway at our system.

Like I don’t want a lawyer. I want an advocate for my daughter.

I only need it to pertain to support and nothing else.

If he wants visitation he can apply for it or whatever. It’ll be supervised with requirements.

He doesn’t. And I will then fight if that bridge happens. I don’t think it will, tho.